[Discussion] Who do you have a better relation with? Mum or Dad?

Sasunarufan13

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I get along way better with my mom than with my dad. Mostly because my dad has too high expectations and whatever I do, it's most of the times not good enough while my sister can do what she wants -_-
Plus my mom understands my hobbies and even watches with me anime, while my dad just proclaims all my hobbies as lame and childish -_-
 

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Wow reading some of your posts are just quite sad. :(
 

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some have you seem to have a tough life.

OT: i have a better relationship with my mom, my father is not much of an affectional type of guy, i'm becoming a little like him too, but i can talk to my mom about almost everything.
 

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My relation is equal with both :/ So i can´t really choose :)
I like them both ^^
 

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I'm surprised to by the different stories of everyone, just gets you thinking that there are a lot of different people in the world I guess. My condolences to people who have lost loved ones, and to those experiencing struggling relations with their parents that I hope they improve one day~
 

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well i have good relationships with both of them, but avoid talking..
 

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Toughie.. I don't think I can answer this one.. Really good question.
 
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This thread makes me feel kind of sad.
I started writting a long reply but as I thought about love and how to tell if you love somebody I got really melancholic...so yeah.

I love both my parents,with each of their flaws.
 

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people here have F**ked up life U_U.

God i can't imagine how sad life would be with no dad or mom, =/

you people just increased my respect to god , i thank you god for giving me, dad and mom :)

i never saw my grandpa :'(

i love them both equally
 

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I have a better relationship with my mom than dad. When I was young he went to abroad to earn money, so I didn’t have a better connection with my dad and I always share everything with my mom.
 

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With my mum, not exactly on speaking terms with dad.
 

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Mom. They divorced when I was around 3-5 and I'm with her.
 

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I would have to say my father. I can talk with him about anything. He respects to me and speaks with me on the level that he does other adults. He's able to listen to my opinion, without interrupting or disregarding it and he's very patient.

My mother on the other hand is very loud, rude, and annoying. She hates speaking with me and is not able to hold a rational conversation. She constantly belittles me saying I have no opinion or free will and takes every chance she can get to make me feel like crap. She's constantly angry and moody, which can be expected of raising one child on her own and only having about 3 or so friends because she claims she's "mentally unstable". She's wanted to kick me out of the house since I was 13, for speaking my mind and has told me on a regular basis that I am meant to be "seen and not heard". In addition I've been called "useless" and "dunce", but I never really let her name calling bother me and I don't shout back at her when she goes on her excessive rants (which last about an hour) which is sad because I act like more of the adult in those situations than she does. However, she does put a roof over my head and feeds me (though she mentions this every second and insults my father while doing it and even insults me everytime I mention something nice about him.) so I'm grateful for that.

So to conclude my rant, I have a better relationship with my parental unit :p
 

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My dad... He loves me better U_U I've always been "daddy's little girl"
 
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