Ah highschool. The time where trivial things such as this is labeled as drama.
There is no drama here. Your "friend" made shit up, which you admitted yourself, to try and wedge between you two. Ignor it, stop being friends with this guy, and give your BF a blowjob. Case closed.
And let me save you some very harsh truth. Not because I am synical on everything (I am), but because I used to be in high school not too long ago and know what just about everyone goes through at somepoint: unless you're the lucky 1%, you and your bf will break up at some point. Could be tomorrow, could be in 4 years. But wrap your head around that sooner than later, because if you get too comfortable without really wanting to spend your life together (you won't), you will be even more heart broken later on. Enjoy it while you can, but typically in high school there's some form of "drama" which splits people up. But that's OK, because at your age range even if you think you are, you're not really ready to spend your life with someone else.
Yeah I agree, I'm hoping my boyfriend and I will stay together cause he really is the type of guy that starting a family with would be amazing. But things do happen, and I understand that :/ hopefully I can drop this drama and tell this guy to stop lying and find new friends u-u
If you say you have a really strong relationship and that your boyfriend has been there for you when times were hard I don't see why he would throw all that away...also you know this guy for a bit, you don't have that deep trust with him right ? And the fact that he always showed signs of bad attitude towards your boyfriend tells me that he is just jealous so I would not trust this guy....does he have any kind of evidence that your boyfriend kissed that girl ? If not I say you should trust your partner and break all bonds with the other guy, it will be hard for a while but people will stop caring and you guys all ways have each other....at least that's how I see it
That's exactly how I see i, too. He doesn't have any hard evidence. The only problem with this whole situation I think is that I'm too naive and caring towards people. I believe
everyone should have a friend. Even the bad people. I don't know, I just hate dropping friendships. My boyfriend said the same thing. He thinks I should stop being friends with bad people.
If I was a girl, I would ask that friend to say it in front my boyfriend, so I can see how my boyfriend would react to what my friend said. I would put the two face-to-face to end it. My boyfriend have to be honest with me if he's up to continue this relationship or not.
Again, if I was girl. XD
I actually did this! I told this guy to say it to his face with me there, and he said, "no cause he's just goin to say that I'm lying to defend himself." He also said some crap like, "I can't be getting into any fights or else I won't get into this one class next year." Blah blah.
Well it sounds like your friend is some what jealous.
First of all the "promise to never lie to each other" thing is total bull, especially at the high school age so i wouldn't take that promise as a 100% guarantee he will never lie to you
Second next time your friend attempts to claim your boyfriend did such things, tell him to take a photo or something.
Also when you say your friend is nice to you, Do you mean it's a mutual friendship or do you simply like him being nice to you such as letting you use netflix
It's a mutual friendship. We both like to play videogames, and we usually Skype and he spends almost all his time playing with me if I ask. However, lately I have been avoiding him cause I am a little irritated. If we stop being friends all of that will stop. When really, all I want is for him to admit he's lying so I can breathe clearly without my head being confused.
This is so straight forward. There are no very close guy friends. I am a guy and if a guy is so caring to you, especially if he is caring to you alone then it means he likes you or he is in love with you but can't say it cos he is not good looking. He is only protecting his interest by bad - mouthing your boyfriend so that the relationship breaks up. Then he can keep hoping that he may have you one day. The presence of a boyfriend whom you are in a relationship with shatters all hope of having ever getting together with you. So you have to choose between Netflix and the relationship. No one can do that for you. Please, let this stick to your head; there is nothing like "a guy who is just nice to you" it doesn't exist. Good guys are good to everyone including you, so if a guy is good to you alone then it simply means he is in love with you period!.
These words are hella wise. Obviously, I wouldn't ever chose Netflix over the best thing that's ever happened to me, haha! =D But I'll keep your words in my head. It all makes sense.
