:flaw: *HeHer death actually helped Naruto in a huge way. He was able to understand what it means to love someone so much to give you're life and stand by them no matter what, to share the same ambition purely because you love them.
He couldn't be upset about the crossdressing, considering that Haku didn't crossdress. He wore a kimono, which is worn by men, women and children of all ages.I like how Haku's dad was upset about the kekkei genkai...instead of the cross-dressing.