elitenoob94
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I hear stories about certain things you do and don't do on the first date, one is which you never kiss on the first date because they generally end quicker if a relationship were to happen.
My friend met this girl on Tinder and he invited me to come along because she wanted him to bring a friend, as she would also (Was a guy not a girl which he told me), anyway, we went to a bowling alley to play pool and bowling, then we just kinda walked around town afterwards (because it was late, nothing was really open) and went to a Denny's just to chill. They ate, I didn't and talked about funny vine videos and what not then we left back to the cars and talked again, that's when I guess my friend was talked into kissing her, oh and by the way his standards are high for relationships since he's religious, he absolutely lashed out on me the car ride back because he was talked into kissing her before we left.
To be honest, she liked it and him, she enjoyed being with him and there wasn't any awkward tension between them. Although he felt like it was the worst date of his life.
Now he's totally lashing out on me and telling me he needs her to be at least christian if he were to date her because of religious matters or it won't work out but even if it didn't he doesn't want to be viewed as a **** because she wants to date him and he says no because she doesn't meet his standards. I think that's just bull shit in my opinion.
Now we're a mile away from our place and he just yells at the top of his lungs at me and then it's that point I lash out at him and tell him he needs to chill because really, it's not the end of the world, it was a successful date, I guess? And he's freaking out like his entire life has collapsed. At that point he continues to blame it on me for making it awkward and I finally tell him if he doesn't chill the hell out I will punch him in the face. At that point he flips out and tells me I need to get out the car and I tell him drive me home this is entirely not my fault, which he does, and as I leave the car I tell him he just needs to straight up chill, this is nothing to freak out over you haven't even taken a step into committing to anything yet in which he responds with "Whatever" as he drives off.
Okay, so inside I'm laughing my ass off because he's totally flipping out over nothing and also I am a little disappointed because I might have ended a really good friendship.
So usually I know how to handle "broships" pretty well, but I feel like this probably was the end point of our friendship? What should I do and do you believe he was freaking out over nothing?
My friend met this girl on Tinder and he invited me to come along because she wanted him to bring a friend, as she would also (Was a guy not a girl which he told me), anyway, we went to a bowling alley to play pool and bowling, then we just kinda walked around town afterwards (because it was late, nothing was really open) and went to a Denny's just to chill. They ate, I didn't and talked about funny vine videos and what not then we left back to the cars and talked again, that's when I guess my friend was talked into kissing her, oh and by the way his standards are high for relationships since he's religious, he absolutely lashed out on me the car ride back because he was talked into kissing her before we left.
To be honest, she liked it and him, she enjoyed being with him and there wasn't any awkward tension between them. Although he felt like it was the worst date of his life.
Now he's totally lashing out on me and telling me he needs her to be at least christian if he were to date her because of religious matters or it won't work out but even if it didn't he doesn't want to be viewed as a **** because she wants to date him and he says no because she doesn't meet his standards. I think that's just bull shit in my opinion.
Now we're a mile away from our place and he just yells at the top of his lungs at me and then it's that point I lash out at him and tell him he needs to chill because really, it's not the end of the world, it was a successful date, I guess? And he's freaking out like his entire life has collapsed. At that point he continues to blame it on me for making it awkward and I finally tell him if he doesn't chill the hell out I will punch him in the face. At that point he flips out and tells me I need to get out the car and I tell him drive me home this is entirely not my fault, which he does, and as I leave the car I tell him he just needs to straight up chill, this is nothing to freak out over you haven't even taken a step into committing to anything yet in which he responds with "Whatever" as he drives off.
Okay, so inside I'm laughing my ass off because he's totally flipping out over nothing and also I am a little disappointed because I might have ended a really good friendship.
So usually I know how to handle "broships" pretty well, but I feel like this probably was the end point of our friendship? What should I do and do you believe he was freaking out over nothing?
