Love? Money? Friends? Family? Or environment? Sometimes I seek love. Sometimes I seek financial stability. Sometimes I want to return to where I came from. I think about the past a lot and can't let go of a girl I was in love with 10 years ago. I miss her. I want to move on. But I wish I had chosen to be with her... what is most important?
What's most important?
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10 years is a very long time. How old are you?
Anyway, I have to say family, love, and money.
Anyway, I have to say family, love, and money.
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The answer to this question differs from person to person
1 You sure have a stressful life ... You have so many issues in your mind ... My suggestion is making your mind empty, spending some time alone to think about yourself (not anyone else) , reducing stress and enjoying life a little bit and also reading some Psychology books (or even visit a psychologist) ...
2- Now , you can decide on your future ; You can answer to "What's most important ?"... On the next step, you'll need to choose a goal and plan to achieve it .
These worked for me and some of my friends ... Hope if this can help you .
1 You sure have a stressful life ... You have so many issues in your mind ... My suggestion is making your mind empty, spending some time alone to think about yourself (not anyone else) , reducing stress and enjoying life a little bit and also reading some Psychology books (or even visit a psychologist) ...
2- Now , you can decide on your future ; You can answer to "What's most important ?"... On the next step, you'll need to choose a goal and plan to achieve it .
These worked for me and some of my friends ... Hope if this can help you .
I don’t feel friendship or familial bonds. So I’d go with...
Money. Imagine having a billion dollars. I could move to a more removed place free of other people. I wouldn’t have to work and could just content myself on my hobbies and pets.
Money. Imagine having a billion dollars. I could move to a more removed place free of other people. I wouldn’t have to work and could just content myself on my hobbies and pets.
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Keep doin what you're doin, and ignore these people.What you're doing is permissible.
Anywho,
Yeah, it's questionable as to WHO is important, for the simple fact that "love" from others happens to be conditional, money is temporary, freinds are "blah", and family are FAKE. And yes, I do wish I never started any of this!I wish this never began in the first place, therefore there wouldn't be any problems!But, look what you have here!
Relationship, or not, friendship, or not...you will die alone, so there's no point of being in fear of dying alone.Be prepared. People come, people go.There's nothing wrong with interacting with people, nothing wrong with having people around(sometimes), but if you do happen to be alone...it is what it is.Get use to it.
Dude, you're 24, holding onto memories of a CHILD, I think you need to look into that. For real.
Get this in your head,...she wasn't all that, she just convinced you otherwise...just move on, you're not a KID anymore.
So, I'd say self-love is the most important, cause that'll certainly keep you alive...it's certainly ever lasting, and the most reliable and infinite. Sure, love from others is great, but what happens when you don't have the approval of others, what are you gonna do?Force it?
Anywho, you're just a target.But keep doing what you're doing, despite the false accusations and charlatan behavior you put up with everytime you post a thread.
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Self discovery? Or some sort of ultimate shaping of the self. Recognizing limits and seeing what can be expanded. That's something that wasn't listed anyway. Not the same as "self love".
Or acceptance. Acceptance of the state of your life and what's happened. I guess that'd be a priority considering how so much is on your mind. Reflect on whatever you can learn or can glean from these experiences, and move on. So pretty much I'm saying the self is important, and that's the priority mindset. People come and go, you enter and leave places. Don't allow the heart or mind to so easily settle and tighten onto what isn't for you or rooted within you strongly yet. I guess once you're calm with yourself and the mind is destressed, then you can figure out at that time again, "what's important".
Or acceptance. Acceptance of the state of your life and what's happened. I guess that'd be a priority considering how so much is on your mind. Reflect on whatever you can learn or can glean from these experiences, and move on. So pretty much I'm saying the self is important, and that's the priority mindset. People come and go, you enter and leave places. Don't allow the heart or mind to so easily settle and tighten onto what isn't for you or rooted within you strongly yet. I guess once you're calm with yourself and the mind is destressed, then you can figure out at that time again, "what's important".
Power and authority is what I want most more than anything, yes anything.
Anyways, forget about that girl. You're still being a slave to this love nonsense. I've given you all the advice that I can, and if you don't shape up, you'd just be doing the world a favor by not reproducing and bringing your weakness into the gene pool.
Anyways, forget about that girl. You're still being a slave to this love nonsense. I've given you all the advice that I can, and if you don't shape up, you'd just be doing the world a favor by not reproducing and bringing your weakness into the gene pool.
