[Discussion] What would you pick if you were in my situation?
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I'm going to be completely honest with you
NOTE - If this is a troll thread, which I think it is, this is kinda sad
You two are both pathetic. You're reasons for staying together are pointless, except for the fact that she MAY be suicidal, that is not something to joke about and should be handled (That's just a personal view point of mine regarding suicide)
In all honesty, you seem too much like a kid yourself to understand anything. Based on the information provided, this does not seem like a relationship, but rather a fling. Also, in your case, it's quite sad that you dropped school not for your own reasons. You may think it is noble to drop to help your girlfriend, but it's just stupid. Now if you dropped school because you yourself had issues, that's another thing. (It would still be stupid to drop, but it can be reasoned more)
Another thing, your grammar. Really? Is this to emphasize that this a possible troll thread? If you were a junior when you dropped out, this should not be happening. This is what makes it hard for me to believe this is legit. However, because there is a chance, I feel like I am morally obligated to still try and say something
All I can say is grow up. Get back on track and stop being distracted. Get your girlfriend back on track too. You're not going to help yourselves by staying still or trying to runaway from your problems
NOTE - If this is a troll thread, which I think it is, this is kinda sad
You two are both pathetic. You're reasons for staying together are pointless, except for the fact that she MAY be suicidal, that is not something to joke about and should be handled (That's just a personal view point of mine regarding suicide)
In all honesty, you seem too much like a kid yourself to understand anything. Based on the information provided, this does not seem like a relationship, but rather a fling. Also, in your case, it's quite sad that you dropped school not for your own reasons. You may think it is noble to drop to help your girlfriend, but it's just stupid. Now if you dropped school because you yourself had issues, that's another thing. (It would still be stupid to drop, but it can be reasoned more)
Another thing, your grammar. Really? Is this to emphasize that this a possible troll thread? If you were a junior when you dropped out, this should not be happening. This is what makes it hard for me to believe this is legit. However, because there is a chance, I feel like I am morally obligated to still try and say something
All I can say is grow up. Get back on track and stop being distracted. Get your girlfriend back on track too. You're not going to help yourselves by staying still or trying to runaway from your problems
Honestly, this is a very hard decision, if you leave her, she will have nothing to live for and maybe she will kill herself which would make you feel bad for a couple of years, but if you don't leave her, you will be unhappy, the question is, who do you care more for, yourself or her? Answer that and you got it.
Sorry for my grammar. The last thing I want to do is letting her find out I wrote this. So I Rushed it, that why my grammar may look childish. I drop out for my own reason. As for her, she didn't want to deal whit the drama by her self so she drop of too. This is not a Troll Thread. We are trying to get back at "Track" as well. We both work to save up for collage. Then I will get my GD as well.
Also about the suicidal Thing it real. I feel trap cause of it. If she would to die just for me leavening her I wouldn't want to live whit myself.
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I care more for myself ( not to sound selfish) but there been many events that have happen whit me and her that make me feel like I owe her. Also if she would to kill herself then I wouldn't want to live anymore.
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Then everything else can be situated after dealing with this suicidal problem.
THIS IS NOT THE PLACE TO ASK
SERIOUSLY, GO SEEK A PROFESSIONAL IMMEDIATELY, AND HAVE THE SITUATION HANDLED.
We are just regular people and we all have ideas, but it would be EXTREMELY irresponsible of you to take support or information from random people on the internet. Call the police or a psychologist or something and request help immediately.
Another thing, in my view, you should not be with her. That doesn't matter though. Seriously, please don't even bother looking back on this thread. Just go seek PROFESSIONAL help for your girlfriend and do everything you can to prevent her from committing suicide. If you want to keep it secret, tell the professionals, and they may just walk you through what to do.
If not, they're still professionals and have definitely handled situations like this, so I HIGHLY suggest agreeing to whatever they tell you should do, even if that means having them directly help your girlfriend
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you need to talk to her (or maybe talk about this problem with your parents too), give her an advice, teach her how to make friends or maybe found her a best friend, a job... and yes, you should go to college for your future live, and tell her it's not the end of her live if you leave her for college.. you can still make a phone call, texts, skype, visiting each other when holiday..
you just bored of her because you've seen her everyday in your live, but when you really go far away from her, i guess you'll miss her and keep worry about her.. you have to choose what's right for you..only yourself can answer that, sorry can't help you much
you just bored of her because you've seen her everyday in your live, but when you really go far away from her, i guess you'll miss her and keep worry about her.. you have to choose what's right for you..only yourself can answer that, sorry can't help you much
Thanks for everything then.
By the way am not going to seek for "Professionals" don't have that type of money. My Mom is ill so I need to paid for halve of the bills whit my GF. ( Which make me feel more trap)
Also I know your regular people. Just want to see what a "Regular" person may say. I was also wondering if someone can relate to my situation, just to see how they overcome it. That all
First of all, I didn't ask her out.
2nd all the problems that we had, made me want to go whit a other girl.
3rd I don't deserve her? I did nothing but built her up, socially, Mentally and physically.
True thanks, Tho I would be suicidal, so ya that scare me. But your right about me missing her a lot if am far away from her.you need to talk to her (or maybe talk about this problem with your parents too), give her an advice, teach her how to make friends or maybe found her a best friend, a job... and yes, you should go to college for your future live, and tell her it's not the end of her live if you leave her for college.. you can still make a phone call, texts, skype, visiting each other when holiday..
you just bored of her because you've seen her everyday in your live, but when you really go far away from her, i guess you'll miss her and keep worry about her.. you have to choose what's right for you..only yourself can answer that, sorry can't help you much
( PS she know how to make friends )
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