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you're 14 .......... wow *_*
it has nothing to do with the older/new generations, when i was your age, i was trouble and continued to be trouble until about 21 (of course the trouble grew seriously as i grew older, getting arrested ........... that kind of stuff) AND my father was even more trouble than me when he was young.
the thing is you can never know how good you will be at raising/discipline your children until you're a parent, some parents can't even find it in their hearts to be strict/hard on their children (but i agree with you teaching them discipline is important) BUT i think most of what happens these days comes from the children getting exposed to things they can't handle/understand at a young age (they are easy to be influenced by the craziest things, can't process their thoughts right) and in this case, a good understanding conversation is a lot better than being strict.
anyways as you grow up you SERIOUSLY start realizing the crazy stuff they had to put up with (and the reason why they did it), and you realize/appreciate what they gave you (what you couldn't even comprehend at a young age).
last thing i want to say is, the older generations were just as crazy (if not crazier) as the new ones (just in a different way).
all i can say to you is respect/learn/be opened to you parents/elders coz you owe them that much (you seem very smart/understanding for a 14 years old) *_*.
PEACE
it has nothing to do with the older/new generations, when i was your age, i was trouble and continued to be trouble until about 21 (of course the trouble grew seriously as i grew older, getting arrested ........... that kind of stuff) AND my father was even more trouble than me when he was young.
the thing is you can never know how good you will be at raising/discipline your children until you're a parent, some parents can't even find it in their hearts to be strict/hard on their children (but i agree with you teaching them discipline is important) BUT i think most of what happens these days comes from the children getting exposed to things they can't handle/understand at a young age (they are easy to be influenced by the craziest things, can't process their thoughts right) and in this case, a good understanding conversation is a lot better than being strict.
anyways as you grow up you SERIOUSLY start realizing the crazy stuff they had to put up with (and the reason why they did it), and you realize/appreciate what they gave you (what you couldn't even comprehend at a young age).
last thing i want to say is, the older generations were just as crazy (if not crazier) as the new ones (just in a different way).
all i can say to you is respect/learn/be opened to you parents/elders coz you owe them that much (you seem very smart/understanding for a 14 years old) *_*.
PEACE
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