What should i do?

[Smd]

Move on, he's currently occupied.

Try to explore your lesbian side, instead.

haha. most girls dont know what they want

I'll catch you if you fall besides don't miss this jet girl :x3: he don't deserve you trust me I know


I want your adorable face:ls:

lol ty.

 

[Smd]

She cheated on him , because there was something he was not doing.

Edit: 20 some odd years, and asking for advice on NB? That seems kind of desperate, though.

thats an excuse to go and fuk a random guy.

then let him get you pergo?

 

[Dreckerplayer]

thats an excuse to go and fuk a random guy.

then let him get you pergo?

Explore your lesbian side,

that way, you won't have to worry about pregnancy, side effects of birth control, and cond*ms.

Don't chase them replace them.

I lose patience with women very quickly, and go to another one. I don't have time to be playing games.

 

[SenseiMartian]

Just keep your eyes peeled. Don't advance too quickly or you will become just a rebound.

 

[Dreckerplayer]

I guarantee, if you move on, he'll make the move, that is IF he likes you.

 

[The Paradox]

Do this

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[-Punk-]

be with him as his friend & make him forget about his ex ...then when the time is right Bam! .......you make a move

*PIPE BOMB* DROPS MIC

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[Kung Fro]

Wait so you aren't a rebound. And if he still likes her let it be

 

[repulse]

Yeah...if he is still hooked on this girl, it would be best if you helped him out of the situation rather than try and make a move. Be patient.

 

[Smd]

good answers.

i guess ill just play the just a friend 'role'

for alittle longer

 

[repulse]

It may not exactly be what you want, but you have to consider what he's going through as well.

 

[Aim64C]

Sooo... there is this guy that i like, but he just recently became single.

And is kinda hooked on her. {his ex }

What should i do?


Should i just stay friends with him or try to and make a move?

Well... it kind of depends.

Do you want to look like you respect and understand his feelings - or like you're happy this important person to him is out of the way?

My statement sounds a bit harsh - but that's kind of what it boils down to.

I would recommend giving him some time to deal with it. From your perspective - you don't want a guy who is 'damaged' and accepting you into a relationship as a hedge against loneliness. That doesn't mean 'leaving him alone' - that means not trying to start up a romantic relationship just yet.

You want him to be looking for a relationship - not looking for a band-aid or aversion to remembering.

Feel out the waters a little bit - see where he's at. When he starts looking to be interested in getting back into the dating/relationship scene - make it known that you're interested.

Or, sometimes just being a close friend -can- develop into something deeper. Kind of depends upon the relationship you two currently have.

 

[Aim64C]

good answers.

i guess ill just play the just a friend 'role'

for alittle longer

I'll just give you a little fair warning:

It took me years to recover from my ex. And I wouldn't exactly say I've "recovered" - there are still times I start down a memory and look back up to realize several minutes have passed without me realizing it.

I'm not exactly sure what the relationship was between this guy and his girlfriend... but I was very committed and very serious about mine. The only reason I hadn't proposed to her was because it would be kind of silly - since I had no means to support her and I at the time (no matter how much I wanted to and how fancy the dreams were).

She started messing around on me at one point in time - and my dad passed away in the midst of everything (my last living parent). In my mind - I was losing almost everything I had... and the future I had envisioned was evaporating before my eyes.

A bit more extreme than what he's probably gone through - but it took months before I could look at a female without suspecting her of being a devious creature plotting to get away with whatever scandal she could. It's only been recently (around three years later) that I've actually started to have much of an interest in dating and developing intimacy.

So it may take him a while, and he may go through some pretty intense stages of grieving (again - depending upon him and what this girl meant to him).

 

[Jack Spicer]

If you truly like him, go for it. Do what your heart feels.

 

[Jack Spicer]

be with him as his friend & make him forget about his ex ...then when the time is right Bam! .......you make a move

*PIPE BOMB* DROPS MIC

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#Punk

 

[Argle]

make him a sammich, that will show him how sincere your feelings are

 

[GreenTeaChloe]

1. He just broke up with his gf.
2. He is still hooked on her.
3. You dont wanna be seen as "that girl"
4. There is a big chance he'll get back with his ex
5. Youre just gonna be his rebound girl.

 

[Wang]

This is so easy: You don't want to be the one that makes the move. Instead strategically put yourself in a position where he (or any normal guy) should make a move on you. I'm assuming you understand how to do this & what this means, this is normal girl stuff. This of course is a test.

If he does make the move then you're in...but you should push him away because you don't want to be a rebound, you want to take things slow, blah blah blah. However, if he doesn't make the move then you just saved yourself embarrassment & rejection. You're welcome.

#trustwang

 

[Smd]

This is so easy: You don't want to be the one that makes the move. Instead strategically put yourself in a position where he (or any normal guy) should make a move on you. I'm assuming you understand how to do this & what this means, this is normal girl stuff. This of course is a test.

If he does make the move then you're in...but you should push him away because you don't want to be a rebound, you want to take things slow, blah blah blah. However, if he doesn't make the move then you just saved yourself embarrassment & rejection. You're welcome.

#trustwang

he is the silent resevered type.

i have to force him too talk lol.

 

[Wang]

he is the silent resevered type.

i have to force him too talk lol.

Hmm, that's a problem, then you'll have to be the one that makes the move.

You're gonna have to act like the guy, this is how I'd do it (if he was a girl): Hang out socially as a friend, this will work because guys don't know how to keep girls in the friend zone. You want to introduce some playful physical contact & playful teasing, and see how he responds to it. You're gonna need to put in a little bit of time so it seems natural (the more reserved he is the more time you're gonna need to put in), maybe a few separate social events. You'll be able to sense how things are going, when the time is right get him alone (so he's not worried about his ex finding out) & lean in for the kiss. You'll have yourself a man.