What should I do? HELP!!!!!!!!!

[Alaries]

There is this guy I really really love, but it seems that no matter what I do or say its all wrong. He says he loves me but his actions say "NO". I want to be wrong on what my head tells me and right with whats in my heart. He denies even knowing me on the internet, and says "you deny me to your parents" well no I didn't deny him. We had just started talking and I was just out of a relationship and my mom asked who I was on the phone with and I said a friend. No other question were asked, but him he denies after we have been together almost two years and denies me completely and he sees nothing wrong with that. Anyway guys what do you think I should do?

 

[mcchikeneater]

Is this someone you actually know IRL or an internet boyfriend? You cant truly love someone you don't know, you can think you love them, but that's just obsessive attachment, not real love.

 

[Regina]

He denies you to who, his friends or what?

 

[Alaries]

Is this someone you actually know IRL or an internet boyfriend? You cant truly love someone you don't know, you can think you love them, but that's just obsessive attachment, not real love.

someone i actually know in real life someone who we have lived together for 6 months.

 

[Alaries]

He denies you to who, his friends or what?

okay say you were in a chat and you say that you are his rl girlfriend and he says idk who she is.

 

[Regina]

If he said it jokingly it would be fine but if he was seriously denying it on facebook or something and not just playing around I would be suspicious that he had another girl he was talking to and didn't want her finding out about you

 

[mcchikeneater]

okay say you were in a chat and you say that you are his rl girlfriend and he says idk who she is.

Sounds like 1 sided love. I know from being a guy, that usually when we act like that, were banging someone else, or just doesn't like you...sorry to sound crude, but its true.

 

[Alaries]

Sounds like 1 sided love. I know from being a guy, that usually when we act like that, were banging someone else, or just doesn't like you...sorry to sound crude, but its true.

well that what i think too and I keep asking but he keeps insisting that im making up bs.

 

[Alaries]

If he said it jokingly it would be fine but if he was seriously denying it on facebook or something and not just playing around I would be suspicious that he had another girl he was talking to and didn't want her finding out about you

no it wasnt a joke he called me a troll

 

[Regina]

Honestly I wouldn't put up with anything like that, if I thought I was being cheated on I would leave but thats just me.

 

[Alaries]

Honestly I wouldn't put up with anything like that, if I thought I was being cheated on I would leave but thats just me.

well I know he isn't cheating physicaly

 

[Avani]

I think you should get be mentally prepared and it's probably time to move on under circumstances. Just IMO.

You really need to resolve it by talking directlly to the guy. Making personal problem threads is prohibitted seeing your previous posts it's about another member at NB itself.