Alright, let's say I have experianced true pain, it is true most people haven't but the few that do are the ones that are perhaps misfortunate, or it could be the best thing that ever happened to them to where let's say, they feared everyday of their life of what was gonna happen the next day and when they finally move past what they are experiancing, nothing, literally nothing can match up to it so that person just won't fear anything else or live in fear of anything again because nothing can match up to what they have gone through. And it might even take this person years to finally get passed the Fear, and pain. But once it is passed, there isn't anything else to fear because they went through the worst fear they could possibly go through, and I'm not just saying this stuff and pulling it outa my butthole, this is stuff I have experienced and gone through.
Experiencing something great doesn't negate fear......it's just being able to control your fear, not get rid of it
Having the calm manner of say Itachi in that fight against nagato, doesn't mean he wasn't afraid.....he was just able to handle the fear and face it
Everyone is afraid and our mind also likes to trick us
For example:
Did you ever believe you were in love and then realized you weren't?
Did you ever think you could do something that looked easy but it turned out you couldn't?
Did you ever stutter in a presentation or get nervous speaking even though you practiced and thought it would be a piece of cake?
These are ways that the mind tricks us.....and fear is a natural body reaction to say "hey that's dangerous, be careful"....we can't get rid of it because it's an instinct...we can merely control it.
There is no living thing that is not afraid when it faces danger. The true courage is in facing danger when you are afraid.
-L. FRANK BAUM
and as for my experience, I've had dealings with death plenty of times.....let's just say my neighbor when I was a child, was a monster.
But that doesn't mean I'm don't feel fear, I'm just able to control it and think rationally in certain situations.