No, I don't think it's nice. It's not a good or bad thing, it's about as relevant as someone's sexuality.
Private *** tapes are common and a private matter, though making them can come with regrets, *** tapes themselves aren't inherently good or bad unless consensual adult *** is inherently good or bad.
Okay, she has many flaws. Is she supposed to spend 24/7 making sure she and other people focus completely on those flaws? All of us have many flaws as well, it's whether or not we let those flaws be our most prominent traits that determines if we're trash or not, and reality shows are a horrible judge of character since, surprise plot twist and shocking revelation, they're not actually reality. There's a thing called personas to get ratings. You think those people are 100% like they are in those shows in real life? Don't be naive.