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My best friend seems to be depressed .
He doesn't conversate with me as much and been absent on and off at school.
I think he's suicidal.
 
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You have to tell him he's is important in the world give him reasons...1.Family....2.Friends....3.etc...
 

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You have to tell him he's is important in the world give him reasons...1.Family....2.Friends....3.etc...

I agree with this. Even if it seems kind of sudden and awkward to say it, he needs to hear these things.
 

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you need to tell him that he doesnt have it bad
there are people in this world who wish they could kill themselves
 

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get him to open up to you but dont push him he will come to you when he feels like it.....when and if he does just listen to him....thats all they want is someone to listen
 

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I'll try its gonna be so awkward though.

It's awkward or he potentially hurts himself.
Don't be afraid to open up to friends, especially if you think they're in trouble.
 
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Make him feel relaxed Comfort him. If that doesn't help make sure you start an interesting conversation, which only you can think of?

Don't be direct, let him open up, listen to everything he has to say if he does start to talk.

If you are still very worried and he doesn't open up why not ask his relative about whats concerning him, that outta bring out a few answer or two

Funny suggestion: If you are both over 18 you could always go to a bar and mix valium in his drink... That SH!T will make you open up like a birrrrrrrrrrrrrrrd maaaaaaan
 

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As someone who struggles on/off with clinical depression and bipolar, just ****ing be there for him/her. You don't need to overthink it. The little things really do matter.
 

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As someone who struggles on/off with clinical depression and bipolar, just ****ing be there for him/her. You don't need to overthink it. The little things really do matter.

Exactly. Showing concern and being there will mean the world to him, I can also speak from experience.
 

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Call him everyday. Seriously. My dad had the same thoughts about his friend and he hung himself in the end..

My dad said he wished he called everyday..

So seriously, call him, text him, go see him and don't leave until you talk.
(Even if its not related to his absense, that may make things worse)

You may feel like its a lot for you to do
But dude
Your his FRIEND.
You'll thank yourself in a few years for helping him and he will appreciate it.

Sorry, death is just to much of a serious matter to even be considered light.
 

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Is he the one you said you might like on your previous thread?
Unless I mixed you up with another nb member
 

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Yeah he is

Just talk to him since you don't want to lose a precious friend.
Convince him to open up so you can discuss his problems and maybe you can work a solution.
 

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Be there for him/ her and make him/ her feel he/she's not alone. Don't give up on him/ her. Life's too precious to be wasted on suicide.
 
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