What are your nonnegotiables

[bigfatloser]

I'd like a more attractive girl(I myself am actually pretty good looking).but I can look past all those things I posted if a girl is just respectful.as a member of the United States Armed Forces I feel I deserve that.

just FYI it's bad to carry the 'I deserve to have a respectful girl because I do X' mentality

Not trying to take away from the fact that you are in the army and serve your people but it's just not a good way to think about other people. If you feel like you deserve something and don't get it, it can lead to resentment. It can also cause problems with girls you are interested in, because they can 'sense' this.