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you did for love? and did you regret it??

Mine… I had a huge crush on someone when I was in elementary to high school XD almost 9 years. (I'm that loyal lol) We’ve been good friends and I really really like him. So when we’re going to college and separate ways. I made a love letter (too much for watching movies/tv shows haha) and gave it to him.

That was the bravest thing I could do. After 6 months, I had no news about him. XD But one night, I caught him online… and ask if he read it. He said he did. And… he said thank you because I was true to myself and that sorry he didn’t have any feelings for me… after that I thought it would be awkward to see him again in person.. but no we remain good friends. And I moved on since then. :)

I don’t regret it. :) Because of him and that rejection… I studied hard in college, busied myself, prioritize myself more than any other guy (made an oath that I won't have any relationship 'till I graduate), and realize my own dream for the future. The end! ;)



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The most stupid thing I've done for love is to not take chances. I don't regret bad relationships I've been in, just ones that I never pursued. Make sure the person you are with shares your long-term goals in life. That will cause nothing but heartache down the road. It may seem when one is in their late teens or early 20s that they have all the time in the world, but time catches up before you know it. If you are unsure of your long-term goals just ask yourself, "where do I see myself in ten years?"
 

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Ok, i'll get along... The stupidest thing i've ever done for love: Nothing.

Because i've never felt that way for someone in my life. I don't know the feeling of being attracted to someone that deeply. I'm still young though, so i hope i do in the near future. FeelsBadMan
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Well i was in a relationship with a girl whom i loved and shared every little secrets of mine.
It first started as friends and then we became bff hell even my friend has a crush on her we were like lets make him and her into a couple(she dint like him in that way) i dont know when i fell for her but one day i wrote her a lengthy 14 page message and sent it to her and she replied she also liked me, i thought that was it(i thought that was how bf and gf were made i was 17 lol) but actually she told me the next day to propose to her so i proposed on my knees and some speech type thing.
We were in love for major part of 2 years then we broke up just because i wasnt a muslim(i forget to tell you she was a muslim girl and i aint) and her family wouldnt accept me, but i doubt that was the only reason because her reasons of break up and the things she did before the break up were pretty suspicious(she dint talk to me for 2 months prior to break up because i said something about her best friend(some guy). Anyways we broke then did not talk for 6months or so and then started talking small talks when ever we meet through our common group friends. And now again we are almost not in touch.
So yeah idk sometimes i regret being too in love and sometimes i feel it was good whatever it was because that was my 1st ever relationship and i felt happy.
That relationship and the breakup changed me for the better or the worst idk but for now i'm too afraid to be in a relationship and get dumped for not the right reasons but that also made me focus on my studies/career like a beast.
Now i dont keep feelings for anyone for long i forget about any girl i like the very next day lol.
 

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* I held on to a girl who didn't love me for the sake of being seen with her...
* Wrote love letter in the 8th grade and gave it to my ex gf to give it to her school mate I had crush on: it never reached her, I was a joke for a week...
* Wrote statuses in crush's language in hoping she will find it attractive...
* Went to church just to be with her on Sunday...
* Used my salary for her birthday trip only for her to dump me the following 2 weeks... (nearly got in debt because of her)
* Putting all the girls I've dated as my wall background on my phones...
 

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Ok, i'll get along... The stupidest thing i've ever done for love: Nothing.

Because i've never felt that way for someone in my life. I don't know the feeling of being attracted to someone that deeply. I'm still young though, so i hope i do in the near future. FeelsBadMan
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Same here,i guess we have very high standards?? Idk :/
 

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I went in the rain walking about two and a half miles to help my girlfriend and change her flat tire. The ***** acted like that's what I was supposed to do and she let me wait 4 months before i could smash and for revenge i tore that ass up and never texted her again now she says i love her more than she loves me so i just broke it off about five months after. :eww:
 

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I made a love letter (too much for watching movies/tv shows haha) and gave it to him.

After 6 months one night, I caught him online… and ask if he read it. He said he did. And… he said thank you because I was true to myself and that sorry he didn’t have any feelings for me… after that I thought it would be awkward to see him again in person.. but no we remain good friends. And I moved on since then. :)
Now the another bravest thing you need to do quite contrast to your story. :)

1.Post the love letter to someone online like me :)

2.After 6 years one day you will catch me stalking your mom's house in RL :)

3.And you would ask me if I read then I thank you because you are the first one to write an online love letter and I have feelings for you :)

4.After you will think you're so tempted to meet me again, get married and move to Spain happily ever after :)

How's that? Pretty much better than your twilight right?? :)

OT: The bravest thing I did not for love but for my friend was fuk her in office late night :)
 
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I liked a girl of my school four years ago. Since she was in another class, I needed an excuse to come close to her.
The biggest idea I had was to go challenge at arm wrestling a classmate of her, who was of Danish origins, and so very big and strong.
The guy defeated me, the girl wasn't interested at all and maybe got even upset at a stranger in her classroom, so my possibilities faded away XD
 
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I liked a girl of my school four years ago. Since she was in another class, I needed an excuse to come close to her.
The biggest idea I had was to go challenge at arm wrestling a classmate of her, who was of Danish origins, and so very big and strong.
The guy defeated me, the girl wasn't interested at all and maybe got even upset at a stranger in her classroom, so my possibilities faded away XD
Danish genes GG :)
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When I was in primary school, tried to impress the girls by acting superior that was really retarded.
When I was in college I had crush with one of the girl, I felt bad realizing it would not work on then 2 years later I see her picture I was like wtf how the **** did she look attractive back then? She was not really like some one I had like. I was so scared, it gave me trust issues with my brain.
 

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Nothing, wich is why i'm still miserable...

I wish i could go back to the past and have friends again, and the opportunity to find someone...
 

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This is back in elementary school. We had this thing called electives where you'd pick what class activity you want to do. I chose my elective as a movie watching class, sounds great, right? Well, i heard my crush had signed up for a different elective. It was a music elective, so what did i do? I followed her to her elective, just to be closer to her. Funny thing is, her music elective teacher never did roll call so i wasn't caught until a couple of months later. Where my elective teacher reported that i was missing attendance, so my classroom teacher told me why i wasn't going to my electives class.

I said the first thing that came to mind which was " i was hiding in the bathroom". Ofc, my classmates laughed at me(I don't think my crush did), i was kinda made fun of for that, because a week or so later. The principal did an announcement on the intercom that said "you had to go to your electives, that means no hiding in the bathroom or anything". Funny thing is i found out a year later that my crush liked me back but eh, i didn't feel like making a move after all that sh*t. Do i regret it? Oh yeah, big time. My elective teacher was and still is my favorite teacher of all time, i chose my crush over my own favorite teacher. I felt like a dirtbag....
 
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The stupidest thing I did for love...

There was this girl I dated in high school, I was sure I'd marry her one day, and marrying me was all she wanted to do. She wasn't bad to look at, but what I loved most about her was her intelligence and ambition. Coming from where I come from, ambition wasn't something many had. She gave me that gift. She went to Duke (we were together for most of that too) and is now in Georgetown for grad school studying law.

But I did the stupidest thing I could've done. I cheated on the love of my life...for my love of vagina and light skin chicks.

At least that's how it felt back then. It was long distance relationship. And we were young and dumb. We didn't have much in common, just a really bad case of puppy love (like stage 4 cancer bad)

Now, I'm older, wiser, not a cheater, and best of all. I have a girl who smokes weed and watches amime :bdpf:

The End
 
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