Were you bullied as a kid or did you bully?

Keyboard Uchiha

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I was only bullied in Middle School, I'm trying to break free of those memories and its working. I used to be bullied brutally in Middle School, I used to be futile, they were just jealous because I was a polite guy that never got into trouble like them. But I had a great time in High School, I was confident and I never got bullied there, even the guy who brutally attacked me came to my school, I would be lucky to beat the f*** out of him but the reason I didn't its because I had respect for everyone in my school. I always kept my eye on him so that he couldn't attack me because If he even tried to attack me its on. But he never put a hand on me again, so I decided not to do anything either, revenge and violence never solves your problems, it just makes things worst.
 

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I was called a bully before, I found it strange because I was being myself. So, nah
 

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I was bullied sometimes in elementary, but never after that.
 

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I never got bullied physical by someone but I got teased in like grade 6 for playing runescape. Stupid ass kids never knew what they were missing out on back then. RS was the sh*t during then (2006-07). As for myself, I never bullied anyone but I did troll people during high-school.
 

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I was a bully
 

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I was cool with everyone
 

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I was treated like crap all through elementary, middle and high school. But in middle school it stopped phasing me. In my 11th and 12th year I just didn't care. Now, I'-m actually grateful. Everything I went through made me stronger, more resilient and much more optimistic in the face of life's crap. And it helped me teach the same to the other people I knew/know/will know in the exact same situations. On top of that, I never cared to be in the "popular crowd"--another thing I'm happy with. Seeing who/what they really were, how they acted, how they tried to fit in, what they said/believed and--of coarse--where they are now as a result of all of it.

I AM HAPPY I was treated unfairly. Now, my life is as fair as ever.
Use the blessings and pleasures of life at their fullest without waist or unwise management. Use the trials and hardships as a way to both grow stronger in the storm of life and reinforce others who--at any point in life, past present or future--go through the same.

EVERYTHING can be used in the fullest of my beliefs--EVERYTHING. Even the horrors of childhood mistreatment and isolation can be exploited as a blessing for yourself and others.
 

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I was bullied. Primary and early secondary.

I was the tiny blonde kid who got everything right.
 

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Nope.

And I never really bullied anyone, just teased and directed them into the trouble pit with no regard for their popularity. It's much more fun to create schemes and plan than to just bully outright.
 

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By literal definition, I'm sure everyone here has been bullied. Receiving any negative comment from a fellow peer on school grounds is considered bullying.

I've had people say bad things about me and I've also said bad things about others. So technically, I've been a victim of bullying as well as be the "bully". However, by some people's definition of bullying, I've neither been a victim nor a bully.

It's strange..​
 

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I once got bullied by this girl, and i slapped her with my powerpuff girl lunch box at 200 exatons.
 

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I was bullied (not physically) middle school years but it was more like teasing. It was just mainly one girl and most of her friends thought she was being stupid but that didnt stop her lmao
 

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I did both.

British schools have very strange banter/verbal abuse norms but often people do go too far to the point it's considered out of order or will hone in a certain person. I did this lightly in my little sh*t years and then I actually matured and drifted away from my old crowd.

And so for the last year or two of secondary school got pretty damn harrassed. I made friends with the few people I used to make fun of and along with some of my other friends they're still great guys I even speak to today.
 

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I once beat up three bullies (Well one I made sure would be infertile, another bit off a chuck of flesh and last one beaten with a steel lunch box) in exchange some still sore ribs (10 years later) .... So what does that make me?
 

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I got bullied for 2 months in my 2nd year of elementary school.
First year of middle school I got teased by some kids in my class for having long hair, but hey who cares I still have long hair.
1 of them was a real ass, 1 was okay, he was helpful at times so I didn't think of him as a real bother and 1 guy was always helpful and I felt really bad for him because both his parents died in a car accident.

I kind of bullied a kid in my class in the 3rd year of elementary school, I didn't realize that it was bullying back then and I feel really bad for him because thinking back about it I think he had a social disorder.
 

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Neither. Although there was this bully who i sometimes trolled hard. He was older than me but he knew that i was the type who would fight back so he never had the balls to bully me. I always tried to make him bully me just so that i could have an "enemy". This was back in elementary school XD
 
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