It is possible to love someone and not have *** with them. Love is an action and *** is a part of that action, most of you say you would rather have ***, *** is a feeling, right? To have *** with someone and not care about them is just pitiful, its like raping someone. Look at how many people break up over *** and over not having enough communication in their relationship, or not showing romance. If you can romance someone(I don't mean romance as in have *** with them, I mean pure romance)showing them a selfless, kind, patient, self control love then that other person will as well. It does not matter whether its a man or a women, it applies to both. *** is suppose to be fun and a thing for couples to share in and grow together, but if you can't admit that after you have *** with someone you don't feel that unique connection with that person than you don't have a heart, you should just find a prostitute or a hooker for that crap.