Turning the other cheek.

[Senju Bean]

This is what happens when you don't fight back.

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[daredevil123]

If someone puts hands on you you put hands on them it's as simple as that

 

[Xicer]

I was taught to never start sh*t, but to never take it either. Sad story though.

 

[Untamed]

What happened? Violence and pain? Peace and death? Most likely. That sucks.

 

[Melania]

Once again, fighting gains nothing. This time it's the bully who has to suffer repercussions and the kid who died tragically.

 

[YokoKurama]

That's just sad. Kids these days, always think it's cool to beat up someone.
Its a damn shame.

 

[Senju Bean]

Once again, fighting gains nothing. This time it's the bully who has to suffer repercussions and the kid who died tragically.

Come on. If the kid had bothered to defend himself, he would be alive today.

 

[Tobi98]

Once again, fighting gains nothing. This time it's the bully who has to suffer repercussions and the kid who died tragically.

Yes it does, if the kid would just fight back, kicked him in the nuts and run they would both survive

 

[Untamed]

Come on. If the kid had bothered to defend himself, he would be alive today.

Yes it does, if the kid would just fight back, kicked him in the nuts and run they would both survive

also the bully could've just beaten him worse if the victim fought back.

 

[Melania]

Come on. If the kid had bothered to defend himself, he would be alive today.

Or the bully would possibly be dead like in the other article.

Yes it does, if the kid would just fight back, kicked him in the nuts and run they would both survive

Again, not to me. But we all have opinions. I am honestly getting rather sick of this stuff taking place in schoolyards too. Where's the teachers? That's what annoys me most.

 

[IndraReborn]

It's so wrong how society is telling kids not to stand up for themselves... No one realizes that they're trying to make the future work class be their boss's ***** and do whatever they say. It's just so sad how parents let this happen to their kids, smh.

 

[Tobi98]

Or the bully would possibly be dead like in the other article.


Again, not to me. But we all have opinions. I am honestly getting rather sick of this stuff taking place in schoolyards too. Where's the teachers? That's what annoys me most.

Well that's the bullies fault

You're right about that

 

[Senju Bean]

Or the bully would possibly be dead like in the other article.

Well then it's the same right?

Why bother defending then?

 

[Melania]

Well that's the bullies fault

You're right about that

I remember when fights would break out at my school when I was little (back in the late 80's early 90's), a teacher would be near by and we'd just run to them to tell them and the fight would end.

Well then it's the same right?

Why bother defending then?

No one wins. And kids should not be growing up this way. Lack of authoritative figures most likely.

 

[Senju Bean]

I remember when fights would break out at my school when I was little (back in the late 80's early 90's), a teacher would be near by and we'd just run to them to tell them and the fight would end.



No one wins. And kids should not be growing up this way. Lack of authoritative figures most likely.

Ok, but if you were in his shoes, would you just stand there and face the same fate?


It's easy to criticize someone's actions when you haven't even walked a mile in their shoes.

 

[Tobi98]

I remember when fights would break out at my school when I was little (back in the late 80's early 90's), a teacher would be near by and we'd just run to them to tell them and the fight would end.

I remember that when I fought he were carefull not to hurt eachother

 

[Melania]

Ok, but if you were in his shoes, would you just stand there and face the same fate.

But it was already too late. Once it started, no parenting or authority figured would make a difference. We can't turn back the clock.

It's easy to criticize someone's actions when you haven't even walked a foot in their shoes.

I don't criticize the kids, I criticize how kids are being brought up, how lack of security is growing stronger (school shootings for example) and as an adult myself I am disgusted by how we do nothing until it's too late.

Oh and I was bullied but she never went through with her threat when I stood there and let her try (she wanted to break my fingers) and I reported her and hand a rather swollen hand that day. Female bullies can be a bit different though.

I remember that when I fought he were carefull not to hurt eachother

I remember one time when the teacher ran to stop them and the kid ducked and the other kid sent the teacher flying with a fist to the face by accident. That ended badly. very badly for that kid...

 

[Senju Bean]

I don't criticize the kids, I criticize how kids are being brought up, how lack of security is growing stronger (school shootings for example) and as an adult myself I am disgusted by how we do nothing until it's too late.

Oh and I was bullied but she never went through with her threat when I stood there and let her try (she wanted to break my fingers) and I reported her and hand a rather swollen hand that day. Female bullies can be a bit different though.

Male bullies are more violent, stronger, and more dangerous. That's why it's rare to hear of a female killing someone with mere punches.


Then can be trained to be less violent, sure. But it's a struggle. There many cultural/social factors involved. What about the demented sociopaths? There's no stopping them.

Training in self defense is always needed.

 

[Tobi98]

I remember one time when the teacher ran to stop them and the kid ducked and the other kid sent the teacher flying with a fist to the face by accident. That ended badly. very badly for that kid...

I'm sorry but that is pretty funny XD

 

[Melania]

Male bullies are more violent, stronger, and more dangerous. That's why it's rare to hear of a female killing someone with mere punches.


Then can be trained to be less violent, sure. But it's a struggle. There many cultural/social factors involved. What about the demented sociopaths. There's no stopping them.

Training in self defense is always needed.

Yes, she was more of the mental bullying type girl. She tried to scare me with threats but when it was time to go through with it, she chickened out at the first sign of pain on my face when she tried to break my fingers.

I'm sorry but that is pretty funny XD

Even the teacher laughed afterward. It was one of those look back and laugh at it one day moments. He was a funny teacher. Lol