To be or not to be,that is the question

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if you meet some new people,and you're kind of interested to be with them but youre personality/style doesnt fit in and you're being pushed aside..
What would you do?make a change?or just be yourself?
 

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if you meet some new people,and you're kind of interested to be with them but youre personality/style doesnt fit in and you're being pushed aside..
What would you do?make a change?or just be yourself?
When i read make a change i was thinking Man in the mirror by michael jackson :D

Anyway you should be yourself, better that way you will fine someone whos right for you, she should like you for you not like the person your trying to be...
 

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Agree. but i believe sometime.. for the sake of the person you love
you might want to change your bad points for example [ bad temper / fat ]

no offend.
just a thought of mine. :)
 

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i had that case in university, and i simply became part of another group which better fits my personality.
you should decide what you want to become. changing parts of your personality or at least your attitudes is possible, but i'd never change in a way i dont like, just to please others. it wont work anyway, you never will be a equal part of a group which you changed for, because absolute change isnt possible and you never will feel welcomed.
 

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Be yourself but find something in common. That way there is something to talk about, and be confident. If you are getting pushed aside it is because you are not showing any confidence.
 
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