Isn't that every single person who ever gets mad at anyone else?
No shit sherlock. We all lose our temper at times, especially when we feel we've been wronged. But that is obviously not what I'm talking about. Providing you are not someone who loses your temper all the time for every little thing, and it's done relatively moderately, there is nothing wrong with that. After all, you can't be completely selfless, and you do need to be concerned about your own well-being as well. The problem I have is when this selfish "revolve around me" behaviour is not some spur of the moment thing, but ingrained within your daily behaviour and is taken to levels where you are irritating or antagonizing others on a consistent basis. For example, there are plenty of selfish drivers on the road who don't give way when they should, or people who jump queues with gay abandon, people who don't give up their seats for the elderly on public transport-I can go on. That is what I mean.