[Discussion] The Friendzone: Different POV

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I would like for you guys to think about this statement, and it's from a man.
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This is more creepy
[video=youtube;bR7VUSXm8k4]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bR7VUSXm8k4[/video]
 

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Men and women don't think alike. The question to ask would be imagine your creepy chick friend thinking you owe them ***
 

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Friend zone = "Sorry, I'm not interested in you but I don't wanna hurt your feelings".

Also, why are people being friends with creeps in teh first place?
 

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Friend zone = "Sorry, I'm not interested in you but I don't wanna hurt your feelings".

Also, why are people being friends with creeps in teh first place?

This is correct. I was thinking about something else to say, but there is nothing significant to add.
 

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This is more creepy
[video=youtube;bR7VUSXm8k4]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bR7VUSXm8k4[/video]
i bet people really see it like this.
Men and women don't think alike. The question to ask would be imagine your creepy chick friend thinking you owe them ***
Im sure some women may think this way first, but most women like to develop an emotional trust before getting into relationships. Which is why the "talking" phase can last a long time. But the friend zone doesn't exist , its called being a kind human.
Friend zone = "Sorry, I'm not interested in you but I don't wanna hurt your feelings".

Also, why are people being friends with creeps in teh first place?

You don't know that they are creeps until it's too late, and the Friendzone doesn't really exist. People just can't be nice. Like, do people really think doing a generous deed will result in some long-term sexual gratification.
 

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Only losers get friendzoned.
 

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i bet people really see it like this.

Im sure some women may think this way first, but most women like to develop an emotional trust before getting into relationships. Which is why the "talking" phase can last a long time. But the friend zone doesn't exist , its called being a kind human.


You don't know that they are creeps until it's too late, and the Friendzone doesn't really exist. People just can't be nice. Like, do people really think doing a generous deed will result in some long-term sexual gratification.

The friend zone exists. It's that place chicks put those guys that do everything for them cause they think they have a chance lol it's even worse when the woman knows she's doing it... it's weird to act like it's one sided don't you think?
 

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Only losers get friendzoned.
Lol, the friend zone is a real as the twilight zone.
The friend zone exists. It's that place chicks put those guys that do everything for them cause they think they have a chance lol it's even worse when the woman knows she's doing it... it's weird to act like it's one sided don't you think?
But I just don't get it, is it so hard for people to just do nice things for someone.This tells me that it isn't possible for men and women to be platonic friends, which i dont believe. I just believe it one sided because I believe it deosn't exist, I like to believe in the kindness of people.
 

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Lol, the friend zone is a real as the twilight zone.

But I just don't get it, is it so hard for people to just do nice things for someone.This tells me that it isn't possible for men and women to be platonic friends, which i dont believe. I just believe it one sided because I believe it deosn't exist, I like to believe in the kindness of people.

No that's not what I'm getting at all... men and women can be friends and do nice things for each other, but when one party is romantically interested and is mainly like that because of their feelings, and the other isn't, but still likes all that and never plans on reciprocating it's a lil messed up.. like if you know and your never gonna feel that way just cut em loose to avoid any issues in the future. Granted not all cases are the same and long friendships turn into something but generally speaking...
 

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No that's not what I'm getting at all... men and women can be friends and do nice things for each other, but when one party is romantically interested and is mainly like that because of their feelings, and the other isn't, but still likes all that and never plans on reciprocating it's a lil messed up.. like if you know and your never gonna feel that way just cut em loose to avoid any issues in the future. Granted not all cases are the same and long friendships turn into something but generally speaking...

But then you just lost a great friend over something that was probably just a long term erection. And the sad part of it all is that most "really good male friends who are in the FZ" are your friends when you are in a relationship, so that kind of makes it creepy that they were thinking this while you were in a relationship and unavailble.
 

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But then you just lost a great friend over something that was probably just a long term erection. And the sad part of it all is that most "really good male friends who are in the FZ" are your friends when you are in a relationship, so that kind of makes it creepy that they were thinking this while you were in a relationship and unavailble.

That's true, but that person was never really a true friend to begin with no? And it sucks but it is what it is. Also, some guys like to wait on girls in relationships, which is just weird
 

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Sounds like cucks to me
 

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Chicks don't put guys in the friendzone.

Guys put themselves in it.

Step up your game fellas.
 

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I agree with it. There is this idea that if a man treats a woman nice that she automatically owes him a chance to be with her; who cares if she isn't attracted to them.

Then guys complain that nice guys finish last. Like sorry but chances are if you are complaining about how being nice doesn't benefit you in the dating scene then there is huge chance you aren't nice at all. Men who are actually nice don't complain about "finishing last" because they are nice because they want to. Not only when they have a motive.
 

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I agree with it. There is this idea that if a man treats a woman nice that she automatically owes him a chance to be with her; who cares if she isn't attracted to them.

Then guys complain that nice guys finish last. Like sorry but chances are if you are complaining about how being nice doesn't benefit you in the dating scene then there is huge chance you aren't nice at all. Men who are actually nice don't complain about "finishing last" because they are nice because they want to. Not only when they have a motive.

Yeah guys that blame not getting girls on being nice sound like creeps to me
 

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Friend zone = "Sorry, I'm not interested in you but I don't wanna hurt your feelings".

Also, why are people being friends with creeps in teh first place?

Oh I so wanna f#ck and date someone like you but not you(maybe better looking)
 
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