Teen Pregnancy.(True Story)

[Chibiusa]

You're being a jerk right now. Take the time to reread your responses.

You can't get mad at him for helping out a friend. She's a friend, he would probably help her with any problem she has. Your complaint makes no sense. It doesn't effect you.

 

[Uchihabrat1560]

A mistake made is made.. glad that she realizes about it rather than doing anything else.. It was her ignorance that landed up to the situation that she is now but nobody can help it now.. can she? Happy that your friend is willing to help her..

 

[Sasunarufan13]

Exactly what i mean. She's 22

Pregnancy at 22 years isn't called a teen pregnancy - that's just a regular (for lack of better word) pregnancy.

OT: If your friend wants to help her, then it isn't your problem. If he doesn't want to help her, he needs to tell her that and stop helping her.
Also, she could have used protection, but the protection could have failed. Condoms and pills and such don't give 100% guaranteed protection.
Anyway, it's normal that she asks for a bit of help - especially when she's on her own.

But well, it's your friend's decision whether or not he helps her. *shrugs*

 

[yes iam Sakura chan]

you said She ask for his help and he gladly helps. i dont see anything wrong with that.
you should be happy that you got a kind loving freind instead of being mad at him

 

[Jenga]

You're being a jerk right now. Take the time to reread your responses.

You can't get mad at him for helping out a friend. She's a friend, he would probably help her with any problem she has. Your complaint makes no sense. It doesn't effect you.

They aren't friends , they never even talked to each other after the day that she started talking to him.

 

[obito777]

I wouldn't help her either bro, you're right on the money bro. I agree with you 100%

 

[Aertes]

I didn't say i was making it my problem.
I asked your opinions on it.
He is giving her money to buy food and then come ask me for money to give to him so he could help her. lmao.

You are making it your problem,cause you are trying to make your friend act a different way cause you think what he is doing is not right and as it seems,you have a problem with the girl too.
We gave you our opinions and what you are doing now is trying to make excuses for yourself cause most of us didn't agree with you.
Just don't give him money.

 

[obito777]

But then again, I'm not that cold to leave a life suffering just because their mother sinned

 

[Scooby Doo]

1) Teens shouldn't have ***

2) Helping out someone is a good thing

3) You say the girl is 22 and she is a friend of your pal, so I don't see the problem.

 

[GeniusStyleUser]

the only way to teach compassion is by giving somebody compassion.
this is how the world changes. one person at a time. and then they pay it forward. and so on, and so on. your friend is changing the world, you should do the same.

 

[YokoKurama]

I don't think that there is anything wrong with your friend helping her out. Even if it isn't "his problem." And even if the girl is a mean person that doesn't mean she is beyond help. I think your friend has a good heart, it shows what a decent human being he is. Yes it is true that most girls do know what they are doing, and a lot of them think that pregnancy can't happen to them and then when it does they feel alone. It is hard raising kids at a young age, and you should never judge someone for his/her mistakes. At least she is doing the right thing and keeping the child. Just let your friend do what he wants to, especially since he is doing something good for someone else. Just try not to give him a hard time.

 

[Darthlawsuit]

His money he can do what he wants with it. Though I think he is a sucker and being used, unless he is trying to get together with her.

Some women leech off of one guy and when they are depleted move to another guy.

 

[Aim64C]

They sell condoms , the guy or her could of bought 1.
So i told my friend that if it was me i wouldn't help her.
What do you guys think , what are your opinions on this?.

Women can be a bit devicive...

That said - people -do- make mistakes. If you care about these people, and see them as being worth your time and effort to help - then there is nothing wrong with helping them out so long as it's not abused. If they begin abusing your assistance - then it should be discontinued.

There is such a thing as personal responsibility and accountability. Approaching another person and asking for assistance when you need it is being a responsible parent given the circumstances. If that person says no, or it becomes apparent that she's becoming a mooch - then that's her fault, once again.

You cannot undo a mistake like that. You can only do the best you can with what is in front of you. So long as she's putting the kid first and not being abusive toward those who are helping her - I really don't see why anyone should have a problem with it. You, personally, do not have to help her if you don't see it as necessary or worthwhile.

 

[HadouKage]

Though I do agree with you, you shouldn't generalize all women.
It's called consequences for a reason :|

 

[GEIxBattleRifle]

His money he can do what he wants with it. Though I think he is a sucker and being used, unless he is trying to get together with her.

Some women leech off of one guy and when they are depleted move to another guy.

I agree with this

 

[Strawberry]

Everybody is saying he should help her, yea maybe help her once twice, three times maybe four but if its re occuring your friend is making a sacrifice and you said he doesnt have a lot of money so he is a good person but good people sometimes get taken advantage of he is giving money being punished in a way for being nice because it was the girls fault for having ***. Hope you guys see what i mean. Im not trying to be harsh but help her out once in a while not again and again and what about the father tel that girl to take this court get the male in.

 

[Alice in Noodleland]

Everybody is saying he should help her, yea maybe help her once twice, three times maybe four but if its re occuring your friend is making a sacrifice and you said he doesnt have a lot of money so he is a good person but good people sometimes get taken advantage of he is giving money being punished in a way for being nice because it was the girls fault for having ***. Hope you guys see what i mean. Im not trying to be harsh but help her out once in a while not again and again and what about the father tel that girl to take this court get the male in.

I get your point Strawberry Ninja, helping is good , but be sure you are not being used or abuse.
The girl should be responsible for her actions. Quit school and find a job or she can do both.
By the way, where are the parents of that girl?

 

[Seffy]

Your friend has a very kind heart and I respect the fact that you're looking out for him. As a friend, you're probably worried that she will suck him into her life and mess up his. The woman is 22 years old then why can't she get a job to support herself? Seriously she is bound to have family and friends that will help her out! I have a daughter of my own and I know how expensive things are to raise a child. However there are charities and even the gov't can help her out (where I'm from anyways)! He should be saving for college and trying to get his life straight first. The father of the child should be helping her out as well.

There are two sides to every story and I just hope that your friend's good deed isn't betrayed. (It happens all the time. U_U) Props to both of you though and wish you both the best.

 

[Yasuko Sayomi]

Exactly what i mean. She's 22

22? I wouldn't consider that teen pregnancy, but it's certainly young.

There's a fourteen year old pregnant at my school. She's not in my grade so I don't know her well. Also, she was loud and obnoxious just like your friend there. Same story just different people at different times in their life. I say if they need diapers and shit help them out. You don't want the baby to go around without any. Just don't let them push you over and use you for money. Other than that, I don't see anything wrong with what your friend is doing. :|

 

[Wang]

Fine, next time I'm a pregnant teenager I won't ask you for help