Srs bsns

[spencer868]

Sorry in advance for the wall of text.

This may not be a serious issue globally, but it's pretty big for me. I'm 18 and still live with my parents (graduated recently), and after we got home from a party-type thing at a long-time 'friend of the family' family which we've known for about 12 years, and my parents went straight into their room and started arguing. My dad had told me that there was serious stuff going on, but I found out from listening to them not really fight but have a heated discussion, that my mom doesn't let my dad see her phone at all and doesn't let anyone else do anything with it. I also heard that she was talking about leaving him and a few minutes later he told me that she was thinking about whether or not she was happy with him, though he said he's happy with her and us as it is. Does this mean it's likely they're getting a divorce? Please just tell me what you really think, I don't want to just hear "everything will work out" when it won't.

Additional info-my parents have been married for a little more than 20 years and I've never noticed any problems like this until now.

 

[SasoriOfTheRedSaand]

I'm sure everything will work out man, parents say things they don't really mean when there angry.

 

[AP2k]

Marriage is, difficult from what my friends have told me. It's virtually impossible to love someone every waking moment of your life. When you're with someone for 20 years it can get stressfull. Totally normal IMO

 

[Don Tuck Yo Shirt]

People who have been in relationships for a long time always argue it's what makes it a relationship if their always agree someones faking. I know you said you didn't want to hear it , but everything will work out. =)

 

[Yo pappy]

No one here is going to be able to tell you what it is you really need to know. Go talk to one of your parents (preferably the one whom you get along with best), and ask them to tell you what's going on.

 

[spencer868]

No one here is going to be able to tell you what it is you really need to know. Go talk to one of your parents (preferably the one whom you get along with best), and ask them to tell you what's going on.

I went outside to smoke a bit (not a habit) and my dad came out and talked about it, he said before I found out the best thing we could do was to be affectionate, but I have a feeling that won't be enough

 

[Yo pappy]

I went outside to smoke a bit (not a habit) and my dad came out and talked about it, he said before I found out the best thing we could do was to be affectionate, but I have a feeling that won't be enough

My advice to you would be to wait it out, as bad as it sounds there's really nothing you can do about it. If you feel the need to do or say something I wouldn't hold back, but just understand that when it's all said and done it's up to them. Good luck.