[Discussion] Soulmate, true love and fate.

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its been 6 years XD, how much more time do you need. Do it now before it is to late.

You're right! :sweat: I need to stop playing around and get to it. I'll probably go ahead and do it close to the end of this month or something.
 

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A universal law like gravity? No, then Soul mates and true love doesn't exist. But I do believe in chance, circumstance and coincidences. You can find the one person where you "click" best with, someone who makes you a better person and you always want to be around them. One of my friends, who's not even 20 yet found this girl. A true needle in the haystack. He's one of the happiest people I've known since childhood and I didn't think it was possible for anyone to amplify it the way this girl does, but she does. The case you put forth in the OP sounds like you're very in love with this girl. You say there have been signals. Go for it! You wouldn't want regrets down the road saying "what if" to every little thing. She might like/love you back. It's better to take the chance than not. I'm rooting for you man.
 

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I learned a new meaning of love in relationships, it's me having my life together and feeling happy by myself and then when there is a great woman I will choose to feel the feeling of love for her. However I'm so happy and fulfilled on the inside that it wouldn't do anything to my state if she liked me back or not.
 

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Six years? She's not interested, you're not in love... and it happened to me, but I realized it was mere lust when I dipped my nugget in her sauce.

Hey man just because you got disappointed don't mean every situation like this will turn out the same. Just saying.
 

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A universal law like gravity? No, then Soul mates and true love doesn't exist. But I do believe in chance, circumstance and coincidences. You can find the one person where you "click" best with, someone who makes you a better person and you always want to be around them. One of my friends, who's not even 20 yet found this girl. A true needle in the haystack. He's one of the happiest people I've known since childhood and I didn't think it was possible for anyone to amplify it the way this girl does, but she does. The case you put forth in the OP sounds like you're very in love with this girl. You say there have been signals. Go for it! You wouldn't want regrets down the road saying "what if" to every little thing. She might like/love you back. It's better to take the chance than not. I'm rooting for you man.

Good for him =D and you're right. I need to take this chance before I lose it and have a huge chip on my shoulder for most of my life. I wanna ask her out to go to the movies or something, but I really can't think of anything smooth to say Lol anyway thank you for the support man :)
 

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I learned a new meaning of love in relationships, it's me having my life together and feeling happy by myself and then when there is a great woman I will choose to feel the feeling of love for her. However I'm so happy and fulfilled on the inside that it wouldn't do anything to my state if she liked me back or not.

That's good for you :) some people are just happy being by themselves and I really respect that.
 

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That's good for you :) some people are just happy being by themselves and I really respect that.
Yeah some people just confuse love with lust while others project a fantasy image of how they view the girl on her when they barely know each other in reality, those people mind**** themselves. There are also those who because they are like this black hole with their life empty and whenever they're around a particular woman feel great that they think that's love when it's some needy bullshit where they try to leech off of the woman instead of finding happiness in themselves.
 

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Yeah some people just confuse love with lust while others project a fantasy image of how they view the girl on her when they barely know each other in reality, those people mind**** themselves. There are also those who because they are like this black hole with their life empty and whenever they're around a particular woman feel great that they think that's love when it's some needy bullshit where they try to leech off of the woman instead of finding happiness in themselves.

I see what you mean by this. A lot of people confuse love with a lot of different things when really it's a whole other thing they really want and when that girl wants that love back most of em' just back out.
 

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Yeah, I do. She's my girlfriend and we literally sense each other's moods.
Sometimes I don't even have to tell her what's on my mind. She already knows

Correction; I believe you'll find a dozen of people that you could call soulmatebin every city you go to.
So, I don't believe in that one special person. You're just meant to meet specific people that transform your life.
 
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only true love exist but it's not restrictive at all because humans do not work that way, we need bonds and love with as many people as we personally need.
soul mates and fate are lies, curses people are putting on themselves, it's against life and love; also, it imply ignoring free will and destroying your ego which lead to nothing else than unbalance and sadness in the end.
 

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I don't believe in any of that, but go for it and good luck!
 
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