Sorry for my First Thread.. :( This is my Real Problem..

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Me and my GF is in a long distance relationship.. but things didnt go well.. We are 1 year and 5 months.. Last December 16 she said that she is pregnant.. She said that she was unfaithful to me. She have another Bf in their place then they make S*X last September but she didn't know that she is pregnant until December where she was on the hospital for a check up because of a 3 months delayed Menstrual Cycle... Now my GF's mother said that she must marry the Guy who maid her pregnant. She said that she will marry the guy because of the baby but her real Love is Me.. :T_T: WHAT should I Do? :T_T: BTW her Other BF makes fun of me on FB and also tells Bad things on me. He even dont know how to cook to clean the laundry and everything, just a 2nd year college.. I think the Guy dont love my Gf at all.. its all about LUST!!!!! :T_T:
 

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If she had *** with another guy, got pregers, and now is marrying him... she is no longer your girlfriend. She was no longer your girlfriend when she slept with this other dude. Time to move on I'm afraid.
ya just move on and give your self time to get over her thats what i did i got over her the moment i found out she messsed around with another guy a week after we broke up like someone who can do that so easily obvioiously never loved me
 

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If she had *** with another guy, got pregers, and now is marrying him... she is no longer your girlfriend. She was no longer your girlfriend when she slept with this other dude. Time to move on I'm afraid.
This is somewhat along the lines of my train of thought, I mean, I'm not trying to be cruel by saying this, but I can't believe there was much love on her part to have done so to you.
I have to say though, you're one heck of a guy to forgive her, or at least consider it.

As you say, what that other guy feels is probably only lust and if he gets married with the girl, they'll probably end up having a really bad relationship.
Don't bother with what that guy says, he is an idiot and will most likely remain one for the rest of his life, no need for you to court his misery.

You will have to decide whether you love her enough to still be with her, know though, that if she decides to have the baby, you'll have to take part in its life as well.
No one will blame you if you choose to leave the GF, she made a foolish choice when she decided to be with another, though I can't say much about what happened..
 
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This is somewhat along the lines of my train of thought, I mean, I'm not trying to be cruel by saying this, but I can't believe there was much love on her part to have done so to you.
I have to say though, you're one heck of a guy to forgive her.

As you say, what that other guy feels is probably out of lust and if he gets married with the girl, they'll probably end up having a really bad relationship.
Don't bother with what that guy says, he is an idiot and will most likely remain one for the rest of his life, no need for you to court his misery.

You will have to decide whether you love her enough to still be with her, know though, that if she decides to have the baby, you'll have to take part in its life as well.
No one will blame you if you choose to leave the GF, she made a foolish choice when she decided to be with another, though I can't say much about what happened..
I'm in my 2nd Year College also.. She said that she will wait for me.. I must finished my Study first and then when that day come I will going to get her without a doubt, even everyone will get angry with her she will go with me...
 
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