something ive come to learn about women in general

[Amantius]

ok im sure all of you have heard the saying, 'nice guys finish last". Ya know ive never really understood what that meant till a few life experiences. For some reason women(most of them not all) love guys that seem like they dont give a ****. I know some of the nicest guys that do anything for their girls but they always leave them for the A-holes just to end up being treated like crap. that really puzzled me for a while. I think I know why. its all about the dominance factor. If a women feels like she has u in the palm of her hand she will lose attraction to you. You have to make her seem like, yeah i love you, but that don't mean you the only fish in the sea women. and something about that draws them to you. like they feel like they have to have what they feel like they cant have or may lose. which is why when a guy is just too nice they get bored and go to the A-hole that gives he more excitement and more of a chase. well thats what I think, what do you guys think?

And this post isnt for little kids because im pretty sure you are no where near close to figuring out women:kagutsuchi:

U_U Sometimes the A holes can become too much work because they think and act like their cool which makes you look at them and go like :sy:

 

[xxlesliexx]

Do they want to stay in the friends area or are they just moving slowly? It sounds like you are more or less impatient.

I am more then patient. I was speaking in general. But I have had a guy that wanted to be more then friends and it took him over 5 years to say so. And to late I might add. If I were not married I would have gone out with him. He spoke to late. My point was good guys tend to wait to long to say something.

 

[Mizukata]

they want a bad boy and shortly after complain they arent good its their problem...not all girls are like that.if they dont want you,whatever move on...

 

[Amantius]

I am more then patient. I was speaking in general. But I have had a guy that wanted to be more then friends and it took him over 5 years to say so. And to late I might add. If I were not married I would have gone out with him. He spoke to late. My point was good guys tend to wait to long to say something.

"too"
:shrug: Is that what really happen?

 

[Prince of Persia TTT]

....so u like boys basically?

i havent said that
have i
m just tryna say that i avoid girls xd

 

[xxlesliexx]

"too"
:shrug: Is that what really happen?

Who are you and why you keep questioning my post?

 

[Amantius]

Who are you and why you keep questioning my post?

Ok mel.

 

[Darthlawsuit]

I am more then patient. I was speaking in general. But I have had a guy that wanted to be more then friends and it took him over 5 years to say so. And to late I might add. If I were not married I would have gone out with him. He spoke to late. My point was good guys tend to wait to long to say something.

Wait... So you mean he liked you for 5 years and never said a thing? I don't think that has to do with being a good guy I think that has to do with being shy.

 

[Amantius]

Wait... So you mean he liked you for 5 years and never said a thing? I don't think that has to do with being a good guy I think that has to do with being shy.

Story doesn't make sense because if she knew the boy liked her for "5" years like she stated, why she didn't say something herself? could it be she didn't felt the same which is why she got married to someone else.......I understand sometimes a woman want a man to make the first move but honestly knowing "5" years that he has a thing for you and went with some other dude just basically mean you never felt a thing for him. So i really don't understand the "maybe if he came sooner" Most girls who has a guy who's in love with them try to make the situation more easy or just simply be it up front if she felt the same. ( not jump to another man)

 

[xxlesliexx]

Story doesn't make sense because if she knew the boy liked her for "5" years like she stated, why she didn't say something herself? could it be she didn't felt the same which is why she got married to someone else.......I understand sometimes a woman want a man to make the first move but honestly knowing "5" years that he has a thing for you and went with some other dude just basically mean you never felt a thing for him. So i really don't understand the "maybe if he came sooner" Most girls who has a guy who's in love with them try to make the situation more easy or just simply be it up front if she felt the same. ( not jump to another man)

First off I dont know anyone by the name of mel. Second I didnt say I knew for 5 years. Read!!!!!!! I took him 5 years to say something. Seems like you have your own issues to work out. If a man likes a woman he needs to tell her. Woman give signs all the time they even say what they want and man dont listen. So back up off me. You dont know anything about me.

 

[Darthlawsuit]

I am more then patient. I was speaking in general. But I have had a guy that wanted to be more then friends and it took him over 5 years to say so. And to late I might add. If I were not married I would have gone out with him. He spoke to late. My point was good guys tend to wait to long to say something.

First off I dont know anyone by the name of mel. Second I didnt say I knew for 5 years. Read!!!!!!! I took him 5 years to say something. Seems like you have your own issues to work out. If a man likes a woman he needs to tell her. Woman give signs all the time they even say what they want and man dont listen. So back up off me. You dont know anything about me.

So you mean he just had a crush on you without being your friend or something?

 

[xxlesliexx]

So you mean he just had a crush on you without being your friend or something?

No we were friends. I guess he just thought I was joking around and never took me serious and 5 years later he tells me you know Leslie I really wanted to date you when we were in school. Both are married now. Just back then i didnt know he had that kinda interest in me.

 

[Amantius]

So you mean he just had a crush on you without being your friend or something?

U_U Some people just need to proof read before they try to make a point across. You see it too don't you.

 

[Darthlawsuit]

No we were friends. I guess he just thought I was joking around and never took me serious and 5 years later he tells me you know Leslie I really wanted to date you when we were in school. Both are married now. Just back then i didnt know he had that kinda interest in me.

Lol yeah he sounds clueless to me.

 

[spotteddawn]

This is a kind of situation where the dark side doesn't look too bad
In all honesty, you should stick to staying nice. Kind of like karma, the goodness you give out will come back to you. Likewise, if you are a bad person, you will be that 40 year old lady with 10 cats, or the old guy down the street who never comes out of his house.

Just putting my thoughts out there

 

[Darthlawsuit]

This is a kind of situation where the dark side doesn't look too bad
In all honesty, you should stick to staying nice. Kind of like karma, the goodness you give out will come back to you. Likewise, if you are a bad person, you will be that 40 year old lady with 10 cats, or the old guy down the street who never comes out of his house.

Just putting my thoughts out there

You can be nice and not be a wimp.... I mean look at teddy roosevelt. One of the nicest guys you could meet but if you rub him the wrong way he will rip you in half with his bear hands.

 

[spotteddawn]

You can be nice and not be a wimp.... I mean look at teddy roosevelt. One of the nicest guys you could meet but if you rub him the wrong way he will rip you in half with his bear hands.

lol! Very true, and especially about the Teddy part xD
The point is, you should just be nice, but yes not a wimp. It's not bad to be a wimp, but it doesn't help out out either :/

 

[blazekev90]

not really the size( as a black guy never had an issue with that) but its more about how you work it. gotta keep things interesting. for instance, a guy that can eat........uhh..u know what ima say.... very good is very highly sought after by women.
the same way men love a women that can S*** a good d***

lol i know that, but a small dude has a harder time, btw im blk as well xd

 

[shukuzu]

ok i havent checked this thread in a few days, but when I do check it, the conversation......kinda shifted to a different convo...

 

[Mokia]

ok im sure all of you have heard the saying, 'nice guys finish last". Ya know ive never really understood what that meant till a few life experiences. For some reason women(most of them not all) love guys that seem like they dont give a ****. I know some of the nicest guys that do anything for their girls but they always leave them for the A-holes just to end up being treated like crap. that really puzzled me for a while. I think I know why. its all about the dominance factor. If a women feels like she has u in the palm of her hand she will lose attraction to you. You have to make her seem like, yeah i love you, but that don't mean you the only fish in the sea women. and something about that draws them to you. like they feel like they have to have what they feel like they cant have or may lose. which is why when a guy is just too nice they get bored and go to the A-hole that gives he more excitement and more of a chase. well thats what I think, what do you guys think?

And this post isnt for little kids because im pretty sure you are no where near close to figuring out women:kagutsuchi:

bro, you said a mouthfull of truth. Kudos for your ability to realise something that no men achieved in their whole lives. 4 real yo