So i need some advice

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So I'm treating someone so affectionately and I don't feel I'm getting the same treatment back (and no it's not any sort of relationship or anything). what do i do??
 

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Stop giving so much affection and see what happens.

If they don't notice any difference, you've been wasting your time.
 

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They don't appreciate what you do for them and they take you for granted.
You should tell them how you feel, and if they shrug it off like it was nothing then they are no real friends.
Trust me i know how it feels and i was to dumb or naive to see it.
 

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They don't appreciate what you do for them and take you for granted.
You should tell them how you feel, and if they shrug it off like it was nothing then they are no real friends.
Trust me i know how it feels and i was to dumb or naive to see it.

I know right i really feel like i should change my treatment.
 

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Confirm your feelings on what u really feel about the person u are affectionately treating, after confirming, confess, if not reciprocal, understand and thank the person and move on. Easier said than done i know, but its for the best.. :win:
 

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Talk tell them how you fell and what you expected of a relationship, then Ask them to tell you how they fell and what they want from the relationship that way you know were you stand and you know were they stand and you can then decide if it's going to work or if you need to move on.
 

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You shouldn't expect anything back if you really care about them.
 

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You shouldn't expect anything back if you really care about them.

Shouldn't two sides put some effort into relationship ? I think the whole relationship should be more or less like it.
 

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Shouldn't two sides put some effort into relationship ? I think the whole relationship should be more or less like it.

If I want someone else to be happy, I don't care how they treat me. As long as I do whatever I can for them, I will be fine.
 

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If I want someone else to be happy, I don't care how they treat me. As long as I do whatever I can for them, I will be fine.

What are you saying, this is just too stupid if they don't care for you why would you care for them they don't deserve it even if you love them.
 

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What are you saying, this is just too stupid if they don't care for you why would you care for them they don't deserve it even if you love them.

I don't have the authority to entitle myself to anything. I deserve whatever I get.
 

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So if you love a ****ing douche you deserve to be treated badly?? I don't think so I think you deserve better. :)

I love everyone. And go ahead. You treat me the way I deserve to be treated. I don't get to make that decision.
 

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First of all, U only need to be affectionate with people who deserve it.. Cuz there are lot of people out there in the world who need love..

You should get a dog.. U'll get all the affection and love in returned (multiplied 10 times)
 
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