should I help her?

[hayabusaJonin]

hi,
So this girl (she is 17) I met just a week ago (but she just lives next door) contacted me a week ago. Being 21 myself, I though it was really strange.But I just played along and we (kinda) became friends. she texted me today and told me that she is pregnent and asked me if i could take her to a doctor and help her kill the baby.

I have never been in this kind of situation so i donno what to do.I can't tell my friends irl cause they "know" her.

What do u think?

It would be so easy to just mind my own business but would it but right?

PS: she also failled this year (at school) but lied to her parents about it


EDIT: I know this is a manga forum but tis the only only i visit. so please vote so I know what corse of action i should take

 

[Yveltal]

.....Does her parents know about her pregnancy

 

[AlexXx]

well this is sirious sh!t. is she pregnant from you? if no then give her a slap for wanting to kill the baby. of course this is not your business but if you want then tell her that you can help her with the baby

 

[Bizarro]

What state do you live in

 

[Awkward Linguist]

Kill the BABY? Dafuq? that's dumb (no offense)

And no, don't help.

 

[BlueNote]

uuum how stupid do her parents have to be to not know about their child failing and that their kid is pregnant and no dont kill the baby wtf that baby ever do dude just stay out of it this is her mistake so she need to live with it

 

[Yveltal]

And also there is a reason why condoms were invented -.-

 

[OhReary]

Well..she can get an abortion without parent consent
depending what state she lives in.

 

[-A-]

did you mean abortion?
I dunno i have a friend whos pregnant, shes 14 and she is having the baby(its not mine xd)
you should be there to support her if she is a good friend to you

 

[Vasto Lordé]

Well if you could then talk to her about finding another way, cause I have 4 possibilities of what she can do.

1. If she's a Christian she knows that it's forbidden to kill a baby, but I have a feeling she's not.

2. Just help her out, do what you can and hope for the best.

3. Talk with her about other options, did she talk with her Family about it, if they're a good family, they'll support her whatever the problem was. if not then keep her away from her father or as you said, just keep the freaking secret!

4. Does she know the baby's father?, does he not want the baby too ? if not then just go along and do what she wants, unless you can think of something better. If I were you as a Christian, I won't let her kill the baby, instead I would help her raise him or provide some sort of Financial Aid for them.

*I hope this is not fake lol, or else I'll be looking like an Idiot...

 

[hayabusaJonin]

I don't think the parents know. And of course It's not my baby.

 

[AnimeFan002]

It should be someone's choice to decide this. But..I don't know what I would do, make sure her parents know.

 

[Punk Hazard]

It's up to you. Just know this: For the rest of your life, you're gonna be the guy who helped prevent someone from living.

 

[Yveltal]

It's up to you. Just know this: For the rest of your life, you're gonna be the guy who helped prevent someone from living.

the way you put is just so....xd

 

[Sasuke Rinnegan]

In good morals you should help her, but that same time you should not get involved in her problem, the best way of handling this situation is to tell her parents about it.

 

[Hipster Madara]

Are you the dad?
Anyways, no. Support her by urging her to tell her parents. They can help her better than you.

 

[ChrisWolf]

Bro look, none of us can answer this question wisely without knowing your situation better, by knowing hers....

1.what are her parens like?
2.who is the father and what does he think?
3.how could this situation really effect you?

But then there's me.....I would tell her I would help her out for a lifetime of free bjs Jkn Jkn

 

[BlackMomba]

Dude if I wear you I'll do one of 2 things

1. Stay out of it. It's not your baby, so therefore it's your responsibility let her her parents and they baby daddy deal with it.(d!ck move I know)

2. Talk her out of it. Show her that having a child is a blessing and your there for her as a friend. Also have a sit down with her and her parents it may provide for the best.

 

[nNoma]

Well my first piece of advice for you is that in the future seek help from a professional or someone you know who has dealt with a situation like this, going onto a manga forum and asking for advice isn't the best thing to do.

Second, you've known this girl for a very short period of time and I don't think your obligated to take on such a huge responsibly. If its not your kid and you don't know her that well, just leave it alone.

 

[-Carnage-]

Dont help her.... I dont believe in abortion, abortion is a cowards way out of getting away from something they started that came with consequences