Should I have kissed her...?

[Sasuke eats nards]

don't kiss drunk girls, i strongly dislike guys who take advantage of girls. we should be better than that.

 

[UchihaBrat]

So, finally got to hang around with this awesome girl I've been trying to meet for like a year now a girl I like way more than a friend and she may feel similar(she's not sure)

Some randomers gave her a drink on the bus, which had alcohol in it so she was drunk during our meeting.
Kept telling me she loves me and hugging me, usual drunk stuff.

Asked me to kiss her but I said no, wanted to but taking advantage is horrible in my opinion so I kissed her cheek.


Towards the end she sobered up a little and asked me for a kiss again, saying she knew what she was doing.
Refused again.
After that night because she was so drunk she forgot everything, even me giving her a phone.

I may not get to see her again, should I have just done it that last time? Call it pathetic if you want but I'm 19 and have never kissed anyone because I want it to be meaningful but now feel like I could have missed my only real chance with this girl...

I don't think you were making a mistake.
For you two to be together again will take determination it seems, as you are pointing out that you might not be able to see each other again, which probably means you don't exactly live neighbours, or perhaps it is the emotions hindering the two of you?

Either way, if you think it didn't feel right, then it didn't. I believe it is important that you go by your own feelings, and if you feel for her still, contact her through Facebook or something

 

[Young Thug]

Oh my god, tell the doctors to give you back your spine and your testes.

 

[Swizzik]

I wouldn't have kissed her I would a given her the d*ck.

 

[Animaster21]

You did the right thing, I respect you infinitely more for not kissing her than if you did. I know exactly how you feel about wanting your first kiss to be something special and meaningful as well, I have exactly the same mindset.
My advice? Talk to her, get close to her. And ask her. Ask her if she remembers and ask her what her feelings on the whole situation are. If she responds positively, take her out for a dinner or a movie or something, with just the two of you, but make it special before you kiss her, it'll let her know that you care.

 

[Bogard]

Tbh i would have taken advantage of that situation. Not sure if it will happen again xd