Serious Discussion: What would you do?

[Wolfang714]

I see you really care, and of course you would because they're your friends. I guess in this situation you finally make your move on Jeff (no homo) and blackmail him. Tell him if he doesn't f*cking stop sleeping with Sharon you'll tell, but first you have to make it seem like you actually will tell (you won't of course). Or... (and this is risky) you could act as if you're interested in Sharon (unless you already have a gf) and start to like, you know. If this plays out you're way, Jeff should get pissed but here's the thing, Jeff has no business getting pissed at you for "liking" Sharon when Jeff already has a woman. Another way is to let the chips fall where they may. If the secret eats you up that bad I know for a fact that exercise, be it mental or physical, should be able to distract. I personally prefer physical because a secret is already in your head and you don't need more mental stress. Hope this helps! I also hope you find better advice than this so everything turns out okay.

 

[3MESSIAH]

Don't do anything,whatever happens happens. It's not your problem.

sadly it`s true.it`s their problem.youve done what you could.the truth will be found out either way.it`s only your job to be there for them when it does

 

[Rozzy]

I see you really care, and of course you would because they're your friends. I guess in this situation you finally make your move on Jeff (no homo) and blackmail him. Tell him if he doesn't f*cking stop sleeping with Sharon you'll tell, but first you have to make it seem like you actually will tell (you won't of course). Or... (and this is risky) you could act as if you're interested in Sharon (unless you already have a gf) and start to like, you know. If this plays out you're way, Jeff should get pissed but here's the thing, Jeff has no business getting pissed at you for "liking" Sharon when Jeff already has a woman. Another way is to let the chips fall where they may. If the secret eats you up that bad I know for a fact that exercise, be it mental or physical, should be able to distract. I personally prefer physical because a secret is already in your head and you don't need more mental stress. Hope this helps! I also hope you find better advice than this so everything turns out okay.

I truly am grateful of your suggestions but yes I have a woman of my own.

 

[Wolfang714]

I truly am grateful of your suggestions but yes I have a woman of my own.

+rep and damn

 

[RAMENATOR]

Bro Code Dictates: Deny, deny, deny. You never knew of this, you know nothing, and you always have an alibi for Jeff...

Friend Code Dictates: You get another of your friends involved and both of you confront Jeff (And more if it becomes necessary). You keep pressuring him until he either quits or comes clean to Joann.

The truth will come to light eventually but you need to pick who you feel is worth your friendship and loyalty, because when it does come to light, you will lose one, both, or most of your friends. Either you want to help Joann or you want to help Jeff, but whatever you do, you probably won't help both. If Jeff doesn't stop, Joann will find out eventually and when she does, she won't be happy you knew but didn't do/say anything.