Funny thing: Naruto's parents CHOSE to die. They were not killed. If Naruto is buddies with his parents' killer then he's the one who should be ashamed of his stupid behaviour, which is as always bordering on idiocy. Honestly, if Kurama killed Kushina and Mintao then it was justified. Why were they trapping the beast for their village's political power for creating a human weapon when it wanted to be free? I have no sympathy for them.
As far as your other justifications go then they are naive if anything else. Taking Revenge is a noble act and requires courage. Only those people forget their slaughtered kith and kin who lack the courage and strength to even the odds. Think about this. Also, different people think differently. Why SHOULD Sasuke entertain Naruto's logic? Can someone please explain this conundrum to me, along with Itachi's?
While I agree with the last part that Sasuke shouldn't be forced to follow Naruto's logic, I'm not agreeing with the first part. Minato and Kushina sacrificed themselves to save the village from more deaths. They only saw one solution to stop the Kyuubi and that let to them sacrificing themselves to keep everyone else safe.
Also, while it is true that a Jinchuuriki gave a village the false security of having a secret weapon that kept the balance sort of in the shinobi world, there is another reason for sealing the bijuu: to keep the rest of the world safe. The bijuu are now more reasonable but in the beginning of the story, it was clear that they would have destroyed the world if they were let free. They are too powerful to roam around freely and nobody would have been safe if a bijuu decided to attack. It would have been something else if they killed the bijuu, but that is 1) not possible and 2) they got sealed, so would you have been okay with population dying because a bijuu decided to attack?
It's possible they gained that hatred because they got sealed, but even the Sage of the 6 Paths had sealed the bijuu for a reason. They are simply too powerful and potentially dangerous to let them roam around freely (of course now it's probably another situation, but back then it was either sealing the bijuu and ensuring the safety of the people or have the people dying in case a bijuu attacked)
And revenge isn't noble. It's dark, it's traumatic and warps the mind; nothing noble about that. It's just continuing the circle, leaving the people taking revenge drenched in blood and until someone stops the cycle, there would never be an end to the bloodshed that would inevitably occur because of the revenge.
So while I understand Sasuke's need for revenge, it's not the right course to take, no matter how right it seems to him