Hinata's love for Naruto since kindergarten, love for the village clown hated by everybody is selfish? Sakura was after the coolest and most popular guy in school, so that can be called selfish as having Sasuke was like wining a lottery . . . . where as Hinata cld only be ashamed of having a loser boyfriend. Selfish . . . . really . . .
I'm not here to argue my opinion, but its the way I see it. Just because your in love with the class clown, doesn't make a difference whether its selfish or not.
I"m just going to quote where I got my stance from, after reading this girl's journal, I started supporting Narusaku, before that I really only cared for Shikatema and nothing else.
"Kishimoto stated that Sakuras love for Sasuke was selfish. All she thought about was Sasuke and didn't care for Naruto or anyone else. I feel that same obsession with Hinata towards Naruto. Sakura had at least acknowledged that Hinata loves Naruto but does Hinata know that Naruto loves Sakura? Of course not, she doesn't know Naruto as much as Sai does (which is saying something) or that she doesn't care about his feelings and thoughts on Sakura and wants him for herself. Thus is why I did not like the "holding hands" portion in the war. She is too obsessed and central on Naruto for herself and I feel like she doesn't think about Naruto and how he feels. If Hinata really loved Naruto, she wouldn't force anything and encourage him to do what he feels is right.
Naruto was willing to bring Sasuke back to Sakura even if that would hurt him the most (at the time). He's never once forced or said he would "claim" Sakura and he is wise. He is willing to let her come to him on her own if she does. That would mean she has no obligation or sorrow and choose him out of pity. " amandas-sketches
If you would like to read the whole journal entry, here's the link, its pretty good,
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Also in my personally opinion, why Hinata won't be with Naruto isn't that she hasn't undergone a major character development change. Naruto has encouraged time and again, to not falter, she's strong. She's gone thru a minor development change sort of. However I think we should see her change later in the manga to the point that she doesn't need Naruto to be strong, that she can stand on her on two feet or something like that.