Romantic vs Sexual attraction

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Romantic attraction all the way.
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Tell this to a 4-eyed programmer with pimples all over his face.
 

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Tell this to a 4-eyed programmer with pimples all over his face.

That does exactly with the person you described. The picture is saying looks are one thing, but a real connection is a other.

Anyway, I don't care. I'll be forever alone my entire life. I'm not a lame-o "woe as me!" forever alone kind of person either. I just don't care about having a relationship. I have zero interest. Yeah, it's weird.

To tackle the topic, sexual attraction is very important, but when it comes to wanting an actual relationship, you have to have a romantic attraction.
 

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-I mean it really depends on the person. If you aren't trying to be in a romantic relationship with a person than I would say they probably would prefer sexual.
For me it depends. Before I dated my boyfriend he had more romantic feels for me and I had more sexual feels for him. We had this weird thing going on before we dated almost like a friend with benefit thing but I actually started liking him.He wasn't a fake nice guy that was actually a douche like the other people that I dated.He was smart and cared about me and we both had a lot in common.I also remember me and him use to be childhood friends who had a crush on each other....And now we have been dating for 2 years. Now our relationship is equally romance and sexual.
 

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Ah ! look like i gonna need a 3rd often here, what you call when someone get attracted through mind ? i guess it's intellectual attraction .

Ah! Are you like that? People often make fun of this type but still it's the coolest. Or maybe I am kinda like that.
 

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Ah ! look like i gonna need a 3rd often here, what you call when someone get attracted through mind ? i guess it's intellectual attraction .

Ah! Are you like that? People often make fun of this type but still it's the coolest. Or maybe I am kinda like that.

Sapiosexuals.It's called sapiosexual.
 

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That does exactly with the person you described. The picture is saying looks are one thing, but a real connection is a other.

Anyway, I don't care. I'll be forever alone my entire life. I'm not a lame-o "woe as me!" forever alone kind of person either. I just don't care about having a relationship. I have zero interest. Yeah, it's weird.

To tackle the topic, sexual attraction is very important, but when it comes to wanting an actual relationship, you have to have a romantic attraction.


Somehow i can related
 

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Romantic attraction all the way.
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It's not always that easy XD

That does exactly with the person you described. The picture is saying looks are one thing, but a real connection is a other.

Anyway, I don't care. I'll be forever alone my entire life. I'm not a lame-o "woe as me!" forever alone kind of person either. I just don't care about having a relationship. I have zero interest. Yeah, it's weird.

To tackle the topic, sexual attraction is very important, but when it comes to wanting an actual relationship, you have to have a romantic attraction.


This perfectly describes me as well xd
 

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Oh LOL. XD My status is what's on my mind right now. :whip:

I'm happy for you. And do you know why?
Because I noticed that to love, even if you're not loved back, is beautiful. You know you're alive when you like someone, and want to stay with that person. You know, when you can't rationally think anymore and do the most stupid things just to enter into a conversation with that person. Such stupid things that you get depressed hours later when you remember it and think that idiocy destroyed all the chance you could have to give a good impression to that person.

Ok stop with bullshits XD
 

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I'm happy for you. And do you know why?
Because I noticed that to love, even if you're not loved back, is beautiful. You know you're alive when you like someone, and want to stay with that person. You know, when you can't rationally think anymore and do the most stupid things just to enter into a conversation with that person. Such stupid things that you get depressed hours later when you remember it and think that idiocy destroyed all the chance you could have to give a good impression to that person.

Ok stop with bullshits XD
From a Bollywood movie, my translation might be not completely correct, but that's the general quote that I love.
"There is no relationship without friendship, there are some relationships we don't understand, there are some relationships we are not supposed to understand, some relationships don't have a name, it just happens. Some relationships have no obstacles, there are relationships that come straight from the heart, true love and eternal love"
Honestly, sexual attraction just doesn't compare to this. Some say it's comparing apples and oranges, I agree but lust dies so quickly.
 

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From a Bollywood movie, my translation might be not completely correct, but that's the general quote that I love.
"There is no relationship without friendship, there are some relationships we don't understand, there are some relationships we are not supposed to understand, some relationships don't have a name, it just happens. Some relationships have no obstacles, there are relationships that come straight from the heart, true love and eternal love"
Honestly, sexual attraction just doesn't compare to this. Some say it's comparing apples and oranges, I agree but lust dies so quickly.

"You must spread some reputation around before giving it to MrTucket again" :)
 

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Ah! Are you like that? People often make fun of this type but still it's the coolest. Or maybe I am kinda like that.

Well yeah ! i don't think anyone would try to unless they want me to make fun of them :p besides i can be open, honest and connect more deeply with a person this way .

Sapiosexuals.It's called sapiosexual.

Thanks need to check on that :cool:
 
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