Relationships

[Doctor G]

I want to know why some people get over their relationships fast. By fast i mean a few days (2+). This is considering the relationship was working out and it was full of emotion. Personally when i see a girl or a guy break up with their significant other after they've been together for a while (1 year +) and the girl or guy is fine and normal the next day as if nothing happened really tugs at my heart.

 

[TheMrVader]

Because they were already over the relationship. That does suck, cause I have been through it on both sides. The straw that broke the camel's back isn't the one that weights the most, its just the last. The other sh*t(straws) is what would make the relationship so easy to get over. Those are my 2 cents!

 

[Kwalker394]

And if that is so then they really didnt have feelings for each other

 

[Regina]

When I go through a breakup I always smile and act like I'm happy and don't care especially if the guy I broke up with is around then I go home and watch romantic movies and cry lol unless he did something and I really just don't care anymore :shrug:

 

[Uchiha Josephus]

I guess they were done with the relationship already and hadn't officially cut it off.

It'll be 5 years for me and my gf come this July!

 

[izinagi54]

ok here is he thing when you mix *** and living together in a relationship before mirrage everything is not ok it becomes a repeated cycle that causes boredom boredom leads to dispair leads to thinking and growing distant

 

[Uchiha Josephus]

ok here is he thing when you mix *** and living together in a relationship before mirrage everything is not ok it becomes a repeated cycle that causes boredom boredom leads to dispair leads to thinking and growing distant

Well if it's only about the ***, then yeah it's probably not going to last. But who knows.

Long-distance relationships are tough too, I would know.

Thank goodness for Skype. And air travel.

 

[Nikes]

I just got done with my 9 month long one.

I came to the conclusion the longer I linger on all of it the longer I will feel sad. So I went to the next chick.

It's better for people to move on once their done so they don't hang around in emotional turmoil

 

[Doctor G]

Because they were already over the relationship. That does suck, cause I have been through it on both sides. The straw that broke the camel's back isn't the one that weights the most, its just the last. The other sh*t(straws) is what would make the relationship so easy to get over. Those are my 2 cents!

I've been through it too =/ and i thought two wrongs didn't make a right x.x

And if that is so then they really didnt have feelings for each other

That's how im starting to think but idk =/ in terms of love i think the world is losing it xD or at least in Cali

When I go through a breakup I always smile and act like I'm happy and don't care especially if the guy I broke up with is around then I go home and watch romantic movies and cry lol unless he did something and I really just don't care anymore :shrug:

But you can tell when someones acting =/ and if the other person does something then i understand why one wouldn't give a crap lol

I guess they were done with the relationship already and hadn't officially cut it off.

It'll be 5 years for me and my gf come this July!

There would be no point in that though =( and congrats dude. If you got something special then don't let it slip. I wish you the best in your relationship and may it last for many more years to come =)

 

[scottyy]

people dont just break up spontaneously usual there is a cause of breaking that would lead to a person or persons considering breaking up and with considering breaking up they gradually start to lose feelings for the person so when they do break up they may have littl or none feelings for tht person

 

[Doctor G]

ok here is he thing when you mix *** and living together in a relationship before mirrage everything is not ok it becomes a repeated cycle that causes boredom boredom leads to dispair leads to thinking and growing distant

What about the marriages that end? divorce rates are going up.

I just got done with my 9 month long one.

I came to the conclusion the longer I linger on all of it the longer I will feel sad. So I went to the next chick.

It's better for people to move on once their done so they don't hang around in emotional turmoil

But isn't that kinda just using a chick to relieve your own pain and suffering?

 

[Melizzle]

If they broke up, it wasn't working.

 

[Nikes]

What about the marriages that end? divorce rates are going up.



But isn't that kinda just using a chick to relieve your own pain and suffering?

I would call it covering it. As long as I'm moving on from it I don't have a problem with covering/relieving it.

 

[Doctor G]

people dont just break up spontaneously usual there is a cause of breaking that would lead to a person or persons considering breaking up and with considering breaking up they gradually start to lose feelings for the person so when they do break up they may have littl or none feelings for tht person

Yea that's what i think. I guess i just needed someone else to say it.

If they broke up, it wasn't working.

True

I would call it covering it. As long as I'm moving on from it I don't have a problem with covering/relieving it.

Doesn't that effect your true feelings about the person though? i mean i had a friend who did/does that and hes completely broken the hearts of girls because once he felt better he would dump them.

 

[Nikes]

Yea that's what i think. I guess i just needed someone else to say it.



True



Doesn't that effect your true feelings about the person though? i mean i had a friend who did/does that and hes completely broken the hearts of girls because once he felt better he would dump them.

Oh no, I went through the downtime about it. I'm not dating this chick we just foolin' around. Prob sounds stupid, but I'm not gonna hang around and linger on what isn't anymore

 

[Swizzik]

Meh I didn't really care when my gf broke up with him I got what I wanted from her already.