[Discussion] Relationship: Letting loose

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Not only is it transitional, but it also depends a lot on the personalities. These subjectively offensive behaviors may never come to fruition if they are simply not the type of characters that would allow it.



I am the perfect example.
I'm seventeen years old and I have not kissed nor had *** with a girl yet.
I much prefer anime girls than real life girls, anyway.
Guess I'll be forever alone.
My game console would accompany me, though.


I sense sarcasm. xD
 

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It took me three months before I really opened up to my girlfriend *_*
 
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I'd say you should be free to do those things at any time. It's all part of the bodies natural function anyways. Everyone does it. I've been with my man 7 years this year. I spit, belch, fart, pick my nose, WITH a tissue of course, around him. I also always excuse myself. I also pee with the door open, sometimes I will go in there and use it if he is in there brushing his teeth or whatever. He doesn't care and neither do I. The way I see it is we got one bathroom and if I gotta go I'm going to do it with or without you in there. However he doesn't go around me, says he can't which is total bologna! Back to the farting, we never fart on each other so to say. It's just in the same room. I farted in his lap once and he wouldn't cuddle me for 2 days because he was mad at me. Which is understandable. OK saying all this was embarrassing! lol!
 

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hahahahahhha you farted on our bf's lap....how charming.
 

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hahahahahhha you farted on our bf's lap....how charming.

Personally I look for qualities like these when determining if she's girlfriend material. She rips a fart on my lap? She's a keeper.

OT: Well, though I agree that it varies from person to person the degree to which you feel comfortable in displaying more relaxed mannerisms, for me personally it's usually after having ***, that I'll begin to let loose. Like most people have pointed out already, it's a slow transition from the good mannered bear you were when you first meet, to the ****-hole you'll soon be 11 months from now. Essentially, you won't see a sudden shift overnight, though there are exceptions.

Me letting loose:

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Relationships are like tacos... Nevermind, tacos are better.
 

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Letting loose..literally in this case Lol

If it reaches that point though, I´d say that´s a pretty healthy relation (minus the biohazard dangers).
But yeah it does take its time and that varies from partner to partner.
 

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Most males here have never had an irl relationship with a female.
Aren't you the guy who's recently asked NB members who post pictures here to marry them? (Post Your Picture Thread)

Hell, you even asked that Itachi loving troll "X Oblivion X" to marry.

Next time, bite your tongue....just bite it.
 

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When starting out in a relationship, you want to be as mysterious, careful, respectful, show full etiquette and sensible behavior.

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Being in a relationship gives an individual comfort in life, to fill the void of loneliness and to always have some there that you can depend on.
Those that have been in a relationship knows the key fundamentals of what you should and shouldnt do when just beginning a relationship.

My question to you all is: When is it okay to let loose when your relationship is stable? i.e; farting in the presence of your partner, going to the toilet with the door opened, burping, telling them about bodily functions and hygiene that you would not discuss or tell them about during the beginning.

I've been with my partner for over 2 years now. He'd fart in my presence, and so would i sometimes (like he'll be playing his game, ill sit on his lap and fart and run out. HUEHUHEUHUE). He goes number 1 with the door opened. I do everything with the door closed. He'd scratch himself, and last time he picked his belly button and was like "ew, look at this."

The time i was comfortable to tell him was gonna go poop, or be free in front of him was a bit over a year into the relationship. However a study shows that most couples feel free around each other 7 and a half months into the relationship.

What do you guys think?

Guys would you fart in front of the girl youve just started dating and at what point would you let loose?

Girls, same question.

I had same stuff going on with my ex girlfriend ''together 4 years'' you become one, you know each and accept him in any way. You can talk about things you wouldn't talk with your best friend. It's beautiful thing .. called love ^^

I miss that... ffs

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I had same stuff going on with my ex girlfriend ''together 4 years'' you become one, you know each and accept him in any way. You can talk about things you wouldn't talk with your best friend. It's beautiful thing .. called love ^^

I miss that... ffs

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Awwwwwwwwwwwwww...

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I had same stuff going on with my ex girlfriend ''together 4 years'' you become one, you know each and accept him in any way. You can talk about things you wouldn't talk with your best friend. It's beautiful thing .. called love ^^

I miss that... ffs

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Hopefully, you'll find a better gal...that'll tend to the wounds of your soul. Sorry that happened to you.
 

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Hopefully, you'll find a better gal...that'll tend to the wounds of your soul. Sorry that happened to you.

owhh it was like 5 years ago, I had quite few good relationships after that only I never fell in love ever since =D
 

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owhh it was like 5 years ago, I had quite few good relationships after that only I never fell in love ever since =D

awww

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You'll find love again soon, you weirdo
 

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i miss the girl that makes my heart beat
 
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WRITE IN PARAGRAPHS! I HATE CLUSTERED F**K TEXTS!! ><" and use GRAMMAR!! My god!

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Anyways, your Ex sounds like a real...

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I know this guy that has been together with his girlfriend for like five years, maybe even more, and he still hasn't farted in front of her. Well, he's a friend of my brother.

It took me two months before I could let one rip in front of my ex. I said "*ex's name*.... I have to fart so bad right now.", and she actually had to do the same xD I just think it depends from couple to couple! :)

As far as the other nasty stuff, we both kept the door closed. Why does your boyfriend do it with the door opened? That's just nasty xD Some things are supposed to remain a mystery!
 
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