[Discussion] Relationship ideas!! /advice

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Hey all, so I've been dating my girl friend for 2 years as of tomorrow, and I just want the base's thoughts on certain things. I can begin to feel like things we say are getting repetitive which lessens it's value so I'm asking today (1) what are some nice, kind, compliment, wowing, surprising, and MATURE, words and phrases to be using, during everyday talk, pillow talk, and when were just together hanging out, as well as caring and valuable phrases. For instance, telling her I like a dress cause it reminds me of x time (a time early in our relationship to show I remember things of our origin)

Next I wanna know some little things that are great to get her and little events to take her, I have given her I think 6 bears in the course of our relationship I was thinking of taking her to build a bear and getting any kind of animal customization she would desire, also I plan on taking her to frozen on ice after Christmas cause she loves figure skating and the movie, but (2) is there any little non materialized things I can do? That's kind of hard to answer cause it's not like you KNOW my relationship and it's sentimentality, but locally what do you usually do with your boyfriend/girl friend

Also how can I make her feel more beautiful? I tell her how gorgeous and beautiful pretty and hot she is often but I think because I have said it often it's value has lessened slightly. What are some compliments girls love to hear that aren't usually said? Like a while back I joked around and told her she was a 'tall glass of water' and she loved that stuff

And I mean anything can really go here as far as relationship advice and how to spice things up (don't say **** damnit) after things have gone for long. And ladies if you really exist on here I would want your opinion in what you would want if you thought things were getting dull (not saying I'm in that position... Yet)
 

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Well . . . idk what to say, i'm not into this lovey dovey stuff and rarely compliment my gfs so idk, i had one i liked byt the hoe wasnt loyal so . . . >_>
 

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Do pranks on each other.
 

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Do pranks on each other.

This^^ Pranks are always fun and it can become competitive, in a good way. Just don't overdo it. Other then that you don't have to try so hard. Just be honest with how you feel. Also if you think the value of your words has lessened because you say them too much then say them less often. Do little things like a flower on her pillow when she wakes up. Stuff like that. Just don't come off as needy.
 

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Never had a gf and im 20years old, so I render useless for advice but Im pretty sure chicks like mysteries and chocolate, incorporate that into something. Thats all I got, pathetic.
 

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Calling her beautiful and things like that won't lose its meaning at all. Trust me, even if they don't show it they are bathing in the compliment.
 

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Marriage.......or u could spent the whole day together getting away from your city
 

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It sounds like you're doing a good job at the sentimental aspect of your relationship.

The best advice I can give you in terms of keeping things fresh is to continue to grow as your own person. It's your new experiences, outside of the relationship, that keep another person interested and excited.
 

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It sounds like you're doing a good job at the sentimental aspect of your relationship.

The best advice I can give you in terms of keeping things fresh is to continue to grow as your own person. It's your new experiences, outside of the relationship, that keep another person interested and excited.

Solid advice real shit bro
 
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