Relation Ship Status on Facebook.

NineSNS

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Anyways here's my view point on this. If she doesn't use Facebook that much all your concerns are moot. I have seen relationships break apart over such trivial details, so it's best that you don't stress on the issue too much. If she uses Facebook a lot and has many friends then,



Green : Two Weeks is still not enough time. I would say a month is the base time on whether a relationship will work out or not. This means she is still uncertain about the relationship between you two.

Blue : This supports my above underlined statement. She is still uncertain about the relationship.

Taking these two points in consideration, the best course of action is to spend more time with her than you did before and remove the uncertainty within her. This can only be done if you open up to each other about your personal feelings.

This is sound advice.
 

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So I'm in a Relation ship for 2 weeks and noticed that my GF still didn't change her Status. She remained single.

I then asked her if she might change it or whatsoever and she just removed the status conpletly, not showing single nor given.

I may have to talk with her first but isn't this odd for some reason? I mean I told her that she doesn't have to link me on profile, just changing it to Given is ok as well. :|

What should I do? NB give me your power of judgment :T_T:

Why do you even care about? You know that you're together so why does everyone have to know that? XD
It's ****ing facebook...
 

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Honestly that is fishy ... One does not give these uppdates when they dont want to things to be know. That would mean that she kinda dont want her circle to know that she is in a relationship.

Honestly. I dont care much abt social media. But some people do ... it can be used to predict then situations.
 

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Anyways here's my view point on this. If she doesn't use Facebook that much all your concerns are moot. I have seen relationships break apart over such trivial details, so it's best that you don't stress on the issue too much. If she uses Facebook a lot and has many friends then,



Green : Two Weeks is still not enough time. I would say a month is the base time on whether a relationship will work out or not. This means she is still uncertain about the relationship between you two.

Blue : This supports my above underlined statement. She is still uncertain about the relationship.

Taking these two points in consideration, the best course of action is to spend more time with her than you did before and remove the uncertainty within her. This can only be done if you open up to each other about your personal feelings.
This, would like to add that she might very well not be interested in Facebook status or Facebook itself for that matter.
Girls are difficult ones to understand, but at the same time you have to understand that they have their own lives and opinions as well. Just like he said give her some time and if you still find that she hasn't done anything about it, just discuss it out with her. Just going for conclusions only because she hadn't updated her Facebook status isn't good.
 
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That's actually pretty strange. Why would she bother to comlpetely remove her relationship status but not to change it to in a relationship or in a relationship with "your name". She's either uncertain or just playin' with you.
 

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2 weeks... and Facebook nonetheless.... DF
 
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