Quick question #Not about Naruto!!

Jack Spicer

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No, what? You're supposedly 17 and he loves you also while telling all kinds of other people he loves them too and you don't what to do? You're not sure if that makes him a "playboy?"


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If true, then really take a second and think clearly. Seriously, just actually think about it. I hope it all clears up, whatever this is.
 

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Judging by the dumb emoticons you use, you seem to be in good mood.

Thanks for reading :D
 

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how old are you? depending on your age, I'll give you my answer xd
I'm 17 :$

Yes, he's a player ._.
I know it :shy:

If he told other girls he loved them while you were dating, or when he told you, then hes a player. If he told you he loved you, then he moved on and has told you that, then thats a different story. The "trust me" line is generally absolute bull shit though.

I saw him chatting with other girls.. But he said it was nothing and that I had to trust him... :T_T:
 

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Judging by the dumb emoticons you use, you seem to be in good mood.

Thanks for reading :D

I'm always happy and kind to everyone.. Even I have a bad mood..
I don't want anyone feel the same way as I do.. Just smiling and happy..:shy:
Even my heart doesn't feel the same way T_T
 

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Well if he goes around telling other girls he loves them, then he's a player, yes. If he's your boyfriend, he shouldn't be telling other girls he loves them - unless he means it in a platonic kind of way but somehow I doubt that.
Tell him that you don't like it when he says that to other girls. If he listens, you can give him another chance. However if he plays it off as something innocent, then you should seriously question your relationship. Do you want to stay with a guy who tells other girls he loves them and doesn't consider your feelings about it?
 

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I don't want to stay with him... But he gets sad and angry.. Then he says I'm jealous and and have no trust... He called it "Just chatting". And want to stay with me forever...
...I don't know what to do :shy:
 

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I don't want to stay with him... But he gets sad and angry.. Then he says I'm jealous and and have no trust... He called it "Just chatting". And want to stay with me forever...
...I don't know what to do :shy:

Well, you say you don't want to stay with him, so the answer is clear. Break up with him. You shouldn't be unhappy just because he doesn't want to break up. What kind of relationship would you have then? You're not forced to stay with him if you don't want that. I'm sorry but if he really wants to stay with you, he should start taking your feelings into consideration and should realize that you don't like it when he says to other girls that he loves them. If he doesn't want to realize that, then you're better off without him.
 

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Okay... I will tell him! ...
 

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You are are being close-minded. He's your boyfriend, though he may be a friend to another girl too, nothing's wrong with it. You're being jealous.
 

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I am not!! I just don't know... :shy:
 

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please don't feel sad :hug: i honestly think that if he loves you he should really put you first and stop flirting with other girls. i would get jealous if my boyfriend did that to me as well, so don't feel like anything's wrong with you
 

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Basically he is doing it for two reasons, attention and because he can.

Attention because he will get more from both the girls he says this too, and you because you will be worried. He will also get attention from others because they will talk about it. Bro's will tell him to keep on playin and Girls will also be jealous.

The reason he can is because you let him unfortunately. By no means does this mean you are bad at relationships, dont take me the wrong way. The truth is that he wouldn't be doing this unless he could get away with it. Tell him what you think he is doing and make it clear to him that unless he stops doing it, you are not going to give him the attention he deserves.

Hope that helps, i know not everything is the same for everyone, but i am also 17 and had a little experience in this area. I wish you luck :)
 

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Basically he is doing it for two reasons, attention and because he can.

Attention because he will get more from both the girls he says this too, and you because you will be worried. He will also get attention from others because they will talk about it. Bro's will tell him to keep on playin and Girls will also be jealous.

The reason he can is because you let him unfortunately. By no means does this mean you are bad at relationships, dont take me the wrong way. The truth is that he wouldn't be doing this unless he could get away with it. Tell him what you think he is doing and make it clear to him that unless he stops doing it, you are not going to give him the attention he deserves.


Hope that helps, i know not everything is the same for everyone, but i am also 17 and had a little experience in this area. I wish you luck :)

It don't work.. If I tell him he says "Don't be jealous" and "Trust me...They're nothing special" ...
Sometimes when I don't give him the attention he wants... It all ends with an angry face... Then he says I don't feel anything about him! But that's not true!!
He doesn't feel anything for me :(
But, I already make my decision! ..I'm gonna break our relationship today!
Thanks for helping!
 

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I don't want to stay with him... But he gets sad and angry.. Then he says I'm jealous and and have no trust... He called it "Just chatting". And want to stay with me forever...
...I don't know what to do :shy:

Hang on a second! Does the bold part mean that you're with each other in the internet? Or, you catch him behind the back when he's chatting in your room or something? There's a difference.
 
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