lol that's not what I meant. I mean I've seen situations were guys are all over girls for no other reason other than they're girls instead of treating them like people. When some guys meet up with some girls they just act a fool. I don't know how to explain it really but it seems like some girls just get tired of girls coming on to them. Like for example what happens on the internet most of the time, guys will just try to get at girls without even talking to them, thinking thayt everyone on the internet is horny like they are.
[Discussion] Question for the Females
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Hipster Madara
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um no... if i talk to him in a conversation i might consider being his friend..
Flyest of the fly
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yo I know I'm on nb or w/e but I meet, date, talk to, do the nasty, ect. with alot of women and they are regular people just like you and me, a real women would rather you say whats truly in your heart vs some cheesy pick up line, if you would like to get to know a girl/women just simply say "Hey my name is ______, you are very attractive to me & I was wondering can we go on a date" if she says no there are a thousand other girls out your lifetime that you will find attractive don't let it get you down.(as a man who deals with alot of women trust me, I've been told no about the same amount of times as yes, just no stings alot more so you notice it more) Main point I'm trying to make is be yourself around women, you don't wanna be/act like someone else, get the girl, then continue to act out of character just to please her, you want a woman who wants and appreciates you for you.
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NOemotions
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Seriously is some1 really trying to get gf/bf here in NB? go outside and get ur girls guys there.. ! pro tip.. be yourself, dont overdo it .. smiling helps alot + some jokes.. depending on situation.. i've never had problems with getting chick.. now ive been almost 3years with same chick leeroy!.
is some1 really trying to get gf/bf here in NB? go outside and get ur girls guys there.. ! pro tip.. be yourself, dont overdo it .. smiling helps alot + some jokes.. depending on situation.. i've never had problems with getting chick.. now ive been almost 3years with same chick leeroy!.
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Boy as soon it was NarutoVsGoku and the title of the thread I knew it was gonna get good interesting
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No offense, but my personal opinion is that if someone wants to do a cyber relationship, he has a luck of self-confidence and possibly an inferiority complex, due to appearance and/or constant rejection, thus trying to hide behind an avatar... U_U
I mean, what is the point to *kiss* and *make out* by posts??? It's so absurd I don't know if I should laugh at them or feel pity for them...
This, by no means is targeted to people that have a real life relationship (have met at least once), and just do so on the forum too, or at role-playing couples, as long as they know it's role playing, not a real relationship...
I mean, what is the point to *kiss* and *make out* by posts??? It's so absurd I don't know if I should laugh at them or feel pity for them...
This, by no means is targeted to people that have a real life relationship (have met at least once), and just do so on the forum too, or at role-playing couples, as long as they know it's role playing, not a real relationship...
this..No offense, but my personal opinion is that if someone wants to do a cyber relationship, he has a luck of self-confidence and possibly an inferiority complex, due to appearance and/or constant rejection, thus trying to hide behind an avatar... U_U
I mean, what is the point to *kiss* and *make out* by posts??? It's so absurd I don't know if I should laugh at them or feel pity for them...
This, by no means is targeted to people that have a real life relationship (have met at least once), and just do so on the forum too, or at role-playing couples, as long as they know it's role playing, not a real relationship...
NarutoVsGoku
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everyone the purpose of this is not to meet girls online lol.. its to meet girls in the real world.. maybe i didnt make that clear in the op
everyone the purpose of this is not to meet girls online lol.. its to meet girls in the real world.. maybe i didnt make that clear in the op
lol agreed.. but eh some people find love in the wierdest places
damn... all my life i have gotten the 1st week and 1st year mixed up!! wow!
i kinda meant an affair with people in real life.. not internetLol, so just to answer the question.
If a guy is looking for a cyber affair, better to start it with asking the basics so to better get to know each other then you can discuss more about yourself and your life and even personal matters and eventually you'll be close and feel at ease with each other. Like the post of other girls, its kinda lame if the guy take it as easy to get
i meant girls in real life.. but agreed guys are not approaching girls correctly. hence the purpose of this thread
how does a guy get you to consider being his friend? what does he have to do or say? exactly? examples?
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Wildtangent
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I would want the guy to approach me confidently ( but not arrogently) and respectfully. A way to get my number is to be funny and make me laugh/smile. Also if we find things in common in our conversations.
I would want him to speak to me in a respectful way: minimal swearing, no sexist/crude jokes, and isn't demeaning. It also wouldn't matter where he approached me and a puppy? haha it would probably get my attention because I love puppies but will it help you get my number? Probably not.
Gifts are always nice, but if its a first date/ we are just meeting probably flowers would be the best (however they aren't necessary). However, giving a girl ( at least me) lingerie in the first few days, even weeks, of the relationship isn't a good idea... it makes it look like your only into me because you want ***.
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JikitsuSan
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First off I'm not looking :3 Sorry Guys! Second I'll answer ur questions personally (the Dark Red) and what I find my Girlfriends (the purple)look for as well, Just because I feel sorry for a lot of guys who sit at home feeling sorry for themselves (I have a few brothers, and lots of guys friends), not all girls are shallow b*tchs! so there is always a chance.
If a guy was to meet you for the first time, how would you want him to approach you?
Personally: I would like a guy to approach me and say a cheesy funny line, or a joke and then introduce himself. I would also find a gentleman attractive, have him hold open open a door for me or escort me across the street.
What I find: My Friends look for a guy who looks after himself, like not having greasy hair or dirt in their nails. They also like introductions first and jokes after.
What could he do or say to get your number or get a date?
Personally: He would somehow have to get my trust, and prove he was interested in me for more then my looks. (boys use ur imaginations U_U)
What I find: Same as me, girls are careful nowadays and try to keep creepers at bay, ur more likely to get a email address to keep conversations with them, just try to be yourself.
How would you want him to speak to you?
Personally: Respectfully and casually, I like feeling like one of the guys but I hate being looked down on.
What I find: Equally, and they like compliments every once in awhile but over complimenting tends to cause them to wonder what ur up to and they start to doubt and disbelieve them.
Where would be the best place for him to make his move?
Personally: for everygirl it's different, so unfortunately I can't help, but if you know the girl well enough to think u feel like dating you should know where :3
What I find: same as above
What would you want him to wear?
Personally: Anything he wants lol
What I find: they prefer them dressed lol
If he had a puppy would that help?
Personally: lol I like puppys but he doesn't have to have one lol and I wouldn't suggest getting one just to pick up girls, I would find that horrible T.T
What I find: lol most my girlfriends like cats more XD, but a lot of girls like guys who have a soft side, which is shown through puppys lol
If he brought you roses, or a drink, or underwear garments would that help?
Personally: Roses, drinks, chocolates and trinkets are always welcome :3 though I would suggest until u get into a serious relationship to keep away from underwear garments.
What I find: Same as me lol and depending on what mood they are in certain gifts can be disastrous!
Example: They are having a "fat Day", do not give them chocolates, drinks or clothes, they will probably feel insulted and think ur calling them gluttonous or fat...
flowers are a fairly decent gift, but not all girls like them, and if they r allergic that could be awful...
As a teacher of mine used to always say, "sparkles make the world go round" lol tho if ur broke even little trinkets can make a girl happy.
Though the best advice I could give is to be yourself and to get to know the girl first, and be her friend.
If a guy was to meet you for the first time, how would you want him to approach you?
Personally: I would like a guy to approach me and say a cheesy funny line, or a joke and then introduce himself. I would also find a gentleman attractive, have him hold open open a door for me or escort me across the street.
What I find: My Friends look for a guy who looks after himself, like not having greasy hair or dirt in their nails. They also like introductions first and jokes after.
What could he do or say to get your number or get a date?
Personally: He would somehow have to get my trust, and prove he was interested in me for more then my looks. (boys use ur imaginations U_U)
What I find: Same as me, girls are careful nowadays and try to keep creepers at bay, ur more likely to get a email address to keep conversations with them, just try to be yourself.
How would you want him to speak to you?
Personally: Respectfully and casually, I like feeling like one of the guys but I hate being looked down on.
What I find: Equally, and they like compliments every once in awhile but over complimenting tends to cause them to wonder what ur up to and they start to doubt and disbelieve them.
Where would be the best place for him to make his move?
Personally: for everygirl it's different, so unfortunately I can't help, but if you know the girl well enough to think u feel like dating you should know where :3
What I find: same as above
What would you want him to wear?
Personally: Anything he wants lol
What I find: they prefer them dressed lol
If he had a puppy would that help?
Personally: lol I like puppys but he doesn't have to have one lol and I wouldn't suggest getting one just to pick up girls, I would find that horrible T.T
What I find: lol most my girlfriends like cats more XD, but a lot of girls like guys who have a soft side, which is shown through puppys lol
If he brought you roses, or a drink, or underwear garments would that help?
Personally: Roses, drinks, chocolates and trinkets are always welcome :3 though I would suggest until u get into a serious relationship to keep away from underwear garments.
What I find: Same as me lol and depending on what mood they are in certain gifts can be disastrous!
Example: They are having a "fat Day", do not give them chocolates, drinks or clothes, they will probably feel insulted and think ur calling them gluttonous or fat...
flowers are a fairly decent gift, but not all girls like them, and if they r allergic that could be awful...
As a teacher of mine used to always say, "sparkles make the world go round" lol tho if ur broke even little trinkets can make a girl happy.
Though the best advice I could give is to be yourself and to get to know the girl first, and be her friend.
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NarutoVsGoku
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these are the best answers i have recieved.. thank you!! i have no further quesitons for ya
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This is the perfect answer. (and I read all three pages)
From my experience a lot of women are similar. They say they want a guy to be nice and respectful, introduce themselves, be friendly, tell a joke make them laugh, but the guys that do all of that get ignored or friend zoned with no chance of relationship.
Women don't know what they want, but how to approach a woman it all depends on the type of woman you're going for.
NarutoVsGoku
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Dam i know this is only for girls, but if the guys on here have problems with talking to girls etc, they should know this never try to use money as a way to get in to her heart, the simplest thing you can do that works 90% of the time is, get to know her. If your in a situation where someone else is trying to steal your get her before you do this----->(remember this is the simplest sht i can say and i wont say nothing else beyond that because certain things must imper vise)
1. Start a conversation-(only apply to someone you know for a while not someone random)-if this is someone random let's say college. Situation is in the cafeteria, you can simple say hey are you new here? if she ask why, just say the way you looking around gave me the impression that your new (never say oh cuz i never seen your face around before----just giving them a reason to think that you trying to hook up, or my personal fav word mac) if she ask are you sort of following me to have notice's this. Say oh as must i love to admit to say i am following a interesting girl like your girl like your self, i wasn't i just thought you look new which is why i ask. if she say's yes she's new then you should know where to go from there, if she say's no say well my mistake, and continue to ask her how long she been here, school she came from, etc you got your conversation and should know where to go from there.
There are maybe ways which the girls here will elaborate on to approach them, this is just something simple i made up to start a conversation.
Most importantly Always listen to what they have to say so you have a question about what you just learn about them.
Never try to sugar daddy your way in (with money) you will be used lol or scared them off.
If they claim to have a boyfriend-most of the time it's something said to see if your going to be scared off just to test you because it's not true. and most of the time it's true, but again don't be scared you have a 50% chance's of the bf being a ass which is your ticket in.
1. Start a conversation-(only apply to someone you know for a while not someone random)-if this is someone random let's say college. Situation is in the cafeteria, you can simple say hey are you new here? if she ask why, just say the way you looking around gave me the impression that your new (never say oh cuz i never seen your face around before----just giving them a reason to think that you trying to hook up, or my personal fav word mac) if she ask are you sort of following me to have notice's this. Say oh as must i love to admit to say i am following a interesting girl like your girl like your self, i wasn't i just thought you look new which is why i ask. if she say's yes she's new then you should know where to go from there, if she say's no say well my mistake, and continue to ask her how long she been here, school she came from, etc you got your conversation and should know where to go from there.
There are maybe ways which the girls here will elaborate on to approach them, this is just something simple i made up to start a conversation.
Most importantly Always listen to what they have to say so you have a question about what you just learn about them.
Never try to sugar daddy your way in (with money) you will be used lol or scared them off.
If they claim to have a boyfriend-most of the time it's something said to see if your going to be scared off just to test you because it's not true. and most of the time it's true, but again don't be scared you have a 50% chance's of the bf being a ass which is your ticket in.
Ghostofthewind
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Actually there are three ways. The first is using a long list of psychology tactics to make yourself attractive to women. It is very time consuming and requires a lot of effort. The second is to have a lot of money, the third is to have a huge penis.