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Hey

So, I got a very serious problem, and no idea how to solve it. I don't wanna involve my friends in this mess, so i ask you guys.

Here's the problem: My mother. She is insane. And not the "put her in an asylum" kind. Yeah, I know. "How can you say such thing about your mother" "Poor woman", bla bla bla. But this is not the time for this shit. We all know there are terrible parents out there. Man or woman. So, yeah.

Anyway, here's the thing: She won't let me or my father have any peace. She'll follow us and torture us psychologically for as long as she lives. She once broke into my father's house(they're divorced, they split up 6 years ago) and tried do atack him and destroy everything. And when she can, she targets her anger at me as well.

And now(yes, I'm an idiot), I'm living with her, because I move to a big city, and she lives here, so it would be cheapter. And I must live here, because of college. And things were... normal. Until she found out(i'll find the person who told and her and beat the crap out of that person myself) that my father is going to get married(and she already lives with another man)

She already threatened to enter the wedding and destroy it. And she'll probably keep pushing me and angering me because of that. And my mind can't take another series of those terrible events.

Moving out might not solve it.She might hunt me, go to the university and hunt me there. She knows where my father lives, and the other city is not very far.

The police and justice won't help. They're biased because she's a woman(thanks a lot, feminists).

I don't know what to do... Please, help me.

EDIT: Also, trying to reason with her, or to appeal to her heart or something, or being harsh and showing strength, all of that is completelly useless. Specially now that she has a brainwashed thug zombie at her service.
 
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**** dude, that sounds serious. I don't know how to deal with a situation like that but you really gotta let the police know that your mom is on some serious psycho shit. Try to get some real evidence of her doing/saying crazy stuff and show them. I'm pretty sure they can work with you guys. Or tell your dad to get a restraining order, but make sure she knows you didn't suggest that idea.
 

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Get out of there if possible school can't release information on students to anyone even your mom make sure they know too in order to be sure
Suggest your dad to get sequrity or some friends who are willing to play the part at the wedding and same for his house
Police can't bias a restraining order
 

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Dude if you genuenly feel endangered by her a restraining order can take care of that. You have to have probable cause (like trashing your dad's wedding)

Other than that, you are a young adult now. You tell her exactly what's on your mind and how she makes you feel. If it gets to be too much, then jump out of your comfort zone and move out on your own, find a roommate to help you with rent. Does your school offer assisted living? If so you might want to look into it.
 

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Man the only thing I can think right now is you going to a police station and try to convince them to help you, that's all I got sorry man.
 

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Good luck I hope the best
And my dad got a restraining order on my mom was able to put my name on it too under something like fearin for our safety cause she's bat shit too
 

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Dude your mom sounds exactly like my mom. Frankly there's no fixing it. Atleast not to my knowledge. My best advise is to never mention your father around her, try to come home after she's asleep and leave before she gets up. And I'm sorry to hear you have to go through all of this. The big thing you have to remember is this is all temporary. Eventually you will move on and that will be that.
 

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You guys should have handled that when she broke into your dad's house. If I were you I would move into dorms or get an appt then just ignore her and by ignore I mean like she never existed don't speak, look or anything to her. If she shows up and says hi just walk around her like she's not even there then if she does something physical or whatever call the cops etc.
 
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