[Discussion] Please help me on this

[Wes Sine]

So I'm in a relationship with a very good girl, and the relationship is going pretty good, BUT I don't feel good with her anymore I just don't feel the need to be with her anymore its like this relationship has done its circle for me. I want to brake up with her but she told me that she ''loves'' me... I'm not that type of guy and cleared it up from the beginning that I have an issue with the whole love thing, I can't expess my feelings at all, and in 95% of my relationships I never had feelings, sure I liked the girl but I can't stay with almost any girl in relationship for more than 1-2 months...Some will may say that I am an a**hole they might be right or wrong I don't really know. I have made some threads about relationships/Girls but when you are out of them you see things better. So 1) Please give me some advice, anything. 2) Am I really a**hole?

 

[Rikudo SenninKun Namikaze]

1. no,

2. yes.

how the freak are u not able to express ur feelings? what do u call this post?

 

[Umari Senju]

some guys just aren't ready to commit. Doesn't make you a**hole, why ? Because you were upfront about it to her from the begining...

With that said, If she has made it clear that she is falling for you then it's best you end it now before things get worse. If you don't see yourself being with her or feeling the same way you are only doing more damage than good by staying with her.

Let her know as clear as day that you do not love her in the same way and you are not ready to commit in that way.

She may blow up at you get angry curse etc. but she will respect you for not leading her on in the end.

 

[Ryu Kishi]

Just do what you want, it seems that you already know what to do.

 

[scorezor]

1. no,

2. yes.

how the freak are u not able to express ur feelings? what do u call this post?

some persons just have to have something more in order to fall in love.

if u're an ashole? i don't think so.

 

[Wes Sine]

some guys just aren't ready to commit. Doesn't make you a**hole, why ? Because you were upfront about it to her from the begining...

With that said, If she has made it clear that she is falling for you then it's best you end it now before things get worse. If you don't see yourself being with her or feeling the same way you are only doing more damage than good by staying with her.

Let her know as clear as day that you do not love her in the same way and you are not ready to commit in that way.

She may blow up at you get angry curse etc. but she will respect you for not leading her on in the end.

Thank you, that really helps.

 

[TheAncientJinchuuriki]

If you don't love her anymore, then it's best to tell her asap.

Not a a******, you're doing what's best for yourself