Please help, I have a problem!

Donald J Trump

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I think I have a problem, this isn't trolling and I would really like you guys/gals to help me out for a second.

My problem is let's say I meet someone and I get them to like me and I am "dominating" meaning they would do a lot of things I ask them to do for me and they would be good to me (doesn't have to be clingy) i get this weird drop feeling in my stomach and it feels almost cringey . Now these people are not ass licks but I just realized I experience this so much,

Yesterday I met a very good looking girl and I got her to follow me around and talk to me and at the end of it I felt like it was too comfortable for my liking, bit suddenly "broing"? Today I met another girl and it feels the same.


My problem is it's not only with girls, it's with my family too. I don't like to go out with me family(including distant family) too much because they like me and it's too comfortable, when I step outside with them It doesn't feel right. I get this feeling with nearly all of my friends where it's like a weird feeling inside I really can't put my finger on it but really weird. It's sort of like "I can get this person to do a lot for me... meh"

I repeat most of these people are not CLINGY, definitely not but as soon as I get comfortable with them I get the weird feeling which is preventing and demotivating me to talk to them and go out with them. I only try hard when I know they don't like me in the moment as soon as they show they like me I lose interest. It's so frustrating.

Do any of you get the same feeling or what?
 
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Yeah, let's ask a bunch of nerdy/weeabu kids on an anime forum for relationship advice. Good luck :elmo:
 

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Yeah, let's ask a bunch of nerdy/weeabu kids on an anime forum for relationship advice. Good luck :elmo:

Idk if you would call it relationship advice because it happens with everyone I am with and It makes me feel like a D*** because I suddenly am demotivated to talk to them after they like me, like wtf? Why am I so good at making people like me when I want them to? :nuts:
 

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Idk if you would call it relationship advice because it happens with everyone I am with and It makes me feel like a D*** because I suddenly am demotivated to talk to them after they like me, like wtf? Why am I so good at making people like me when I want them to? :nuts:
Egotistical or is it a cry for attention? Perhaps both :sigar:
 

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..............

I think I know what I was trying to say now. I have no respect for the people ; ( I don't think they're bad or whatever but I don't admire them or respect them like "that guy/girl is a boss man/woman"
 

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Egotistical or is it a cry for attention? Perhaps both :sigar:

It really isn't. I'm just wondering if you get any feelings maybe like me. E.g have you ever had a friend gf that was too nice? It's that feeling but 24/7
 

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erm..well, that's odd..to say the least.
So, it seems to me you're realizing a really nasty part of your personality or way of thinking..?
 
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stop going after basic b!thces.

once you've known or had one, you've had them all.
I learn from experience.. they are the same just looks a tad bit different from one another.

at the end of it all, she'll feel like another meatbag and your interactions with them feels scripted.

nothing new to add on to your life. or maybe you and i are just massive d!ckheads .
 

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In all seriousness, you probably just get bad reads on people.
 

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I think I know what I was trying to say now. I have no respect for the people ; ( I don't think they're bad or whatever but I don't admire them or respect them like "that guy/girl is a boss man/woman"

Time for you to do yoga.
 

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I think I know what I was trying to say now. I have no respect for the people ; ( I don't think they're bad or whatever but I don't admire them or respect them like "that guy/girl is a boss man/woman"
How does lack of respect translate to a feeling in your stomach? Unless it's disgust of course. I don't 'admire' my family or friends.
 

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Personal problem bud. It's not them it's you. The way you interpret and respond to "nice" is weird asf. I'm sure you know that which is why you opened up with the bit about this not being trolling

Either way more than likely none of us could actually help you unless we actually met you for ourselves
 
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Yeah, let's ask a bunch of nerdy/weeabu kids on an anime forum for relationship advice. Good luck :elmo:

being a nerd or a kid doesn't make you inexperience at relationship.
 

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Basically you have a personality disorder commonly known as sociopathy. You manipulate to achieve your goals and complete your egotistical traits. You show no empathy or remorse, you feel something is wrong with you which shows a high level of inteligence and self-awareness (this last one is not normal in these cases).

Once you get what you want from people, they disgust you because they aren't useful anymore.

OP, i don't know your age or what you do for a living but you should seek a professional that can guide you through life, so you don't have to behave like this, there are efforts in terms of thinking and acting that can be made so that you don't suffer later in life and believe me, you will suffer, more than the people you hurt.


This is my contribution to your «problem». A professional opinion by the way...
 

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being a nerd or a kid doesn't make you inexperience at relationship.
Would you go to a ten year old for relationship advice? Also like 90% of this forum are virgins/losers, I can tell based simply on the way they act.
 

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Did you really just say that things were too comfortable to be good in your life? L oh L, I say appreciate that shit and stop being a feggt. There's no problem with being selfish in most situations and this is one of them
 

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Would you go to a ten year old for relationship advice? Also like 90% of this forum are virgins/losers, I can tell based simply on the way they act.

:| so are you claiming to be a pro or what?
 
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