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I think I have a problem, this isn't trolling and I would really like you guys/gals to help me out for a second.
My problem is let's say I meet someone and I get them to like me and I am "dominating" meaning they would do a lot of things I ask them to do for me and they would be good to me (doesn't have to be clingy) i get this weird drop feeling in my stomach and it feels almost cringey . Now these people are not ass licks but I just realized I experience this so much,
Yesterday I met a very good looking girl and I got her to follow me around and talk to me and at the end of it I felt like it was too comfortable for my liking, bit suddenly "broing"? Today I met another girl and it feels the same.
My problem is it's not only with girls, it's with my family too. I don't like to go out with me family(including distant family) too much because they like me and it's too comfortable, when I step outside with them It doesn't feel right. I get this feeling with nearly all of my friends where it's like a weird feeling inside I really can't put my finger on it but really weird. It's sort of like "I can get this person to do a lot for me... meh"
I repeat most of these people are not CLINGY, definitely not but as soon as I get comfortable with them I get the weird feeling which is preventing and demotivating me to talk to them and go out with them. I only try hard when I know they don't like me in the moment as soon as they show they like me I lose interest. It's so frustrating.
Do any of you get the same feeling or what?
My problem is let's say I meet someone and I get them to like me and I am "dominating" meaning they would do a lot of things I ask them to do for me and they would be good to me (doesn't have to be clingy) i get this weird drop feeling in my stomach and it feels almost cringey . Now these people are not ass licks but I just realized I experience this so much,
Yesterday I met a very good looking girl and I got her to follow me around and talk to me and at the end of it I felt like it was too comfortable for my liking, bit suddenly "broing"? Today I met another girl and it feels the same.
My problem is it's not only with girls, it's with my family too. I don't like to go out with me family(including distant family) too much because they like me and it's too comfortable, when I step outside with them It doesn't feel right. I get this feeling with nearly all of my friends where it's like a weird feeling inside I really can't put my finger on it but really weird. It's sort of like "I can get this person to do a lot for me... meh"
I repeat most of these people are not CLINGY, definitely not but as soon as I get comfortable with them I get the weird feeling which is preventing and demotivating me to talk to them and go out with them. I only try hard when I know they don't like me in the moment as soon as they show they like me I lose interest. It's so frustrating.
Do any of you get the same feeling or what?
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