It is really nice to see people being so passionate about this place; I saw this and heard about this on number of occasions.
However, I always heavily disliked the way forum leaders talk with the people who want to contribute to this place. Why would you treat people who want to help with the change like your enemies? If you are so busy with your work and wife and kids and life outside (which you should be by all means) why not involve people who want to help so passionately? What advantages do you get by telling people to just leave the place? I don´t know, it´s just so mean, the way you lot talk to people. -_-
You should learn a few things from LoK and his team. Obviously, not everything can always be perfect for everyone but you have to credit RP leaders for updating its members, talking to them, including people.
Anyhow, have a great day NB! Love you! <3