People can't get along

Bling Kai

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Such a sad thread .

Everyone has different personalities & taste on what they like or whatever , you can't get along with everyone , find people you share common interests with , you'll find someone to talk to here or outside NB .
I only stated my friend status on the base to prove my point. I use to hang out with some friends but when they started acting acting a certain way I left them.
 

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I only stated my friend status on the base to prove my point. I use to hang out with some friends but when they started acting acting a certain way I left them.

So find new friends. But don't close your ties with your old friends and become a Sasuke. (They might just be going through a phase)
 

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Ofcourse not. But you're pushing yourself down a mountain by supporting your negative feelings. Do some volunteering work, travel and you'll meet lovely people. Staying angry and being alone will not improve your situation.

You know , she / he is right =)
 

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When you said collectively, I'm assuming you meant the world as a whole? Of course not, everyone is different and will naturally have different opinions, especially since each person has a different experience. I'm sure everyone knows that.

The only issue here is whether or not you're going to let something as natural as that turn you into negative person.

Disagreements are part of what makes us human. It means we have an opinion, and we have feelings associated with it. If we always just agree with each other and follow each other blindly, I'd imagine it would look like the world is made of robots. Lol
 

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Over my 18 years of life I have had MANY bad experiences and things of that sort. Most of my life could be summed up as misery.

Most of it has been caused by other people. Almost all my problems have been caused by others. This leads mento believe that PEOPLE CANT EVER GET ALONG NOT NOW NOT EVER. I strongly believe this because everything is fine when I am alone in life.

If you check my profile you will see that I have no friends on this base it is because I don't like to be around others for the reasons I have already stated.

Anyway do you guys agree that PEOPLE IN THE WORLD WILL NEVER GET ALONG COLLECTIVELY

I guess your an independent person, only a few people are able to do things on their own.

But it also comes with some consequences as you see being independent makes you strong that you cannot get hurt from anyone else, it also makes you weak (if your an introvert) that others are unable to understand your feelings and help you as well.

Understanding is a mutual thing that cannot be achieved with everyone but still your able to make friends, who have the same view/ideas
:)
 

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lol jk. I understand where you're coming from tho.
 

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opposites dont always attract if you be more positive you will attract positive people
 

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I'm very selective about who I have contact with. If I find something I really dislike about someone, I'll most likely shut them out completely. I have a low tolerance.

At the same time, I can get along with some people really well. I'm more of an introvert, but if I think someone is a nice enough person, l can get along with them really well. I used to think that I didn't need anyone else, but in the end you need some people, even if it's just a few friends you can trust.
 

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if you are alone, pray to lord madara the savior


but yes, a human can never undestand other human becuase life is a question not a answer
 

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When I grow up, I start to realize how ugly this society is.

Of course, I always tell myself to be myself and never let society change my virtues.

Remain positive and you will see people entering your life.
 

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Over my 18 years of life I have had MANY bad experiences and things of that sort. Most of my life could be summed up as misery.

Most of it has been caused by other people. Almost all my problems have been caused by others. This leads mento believe that PEOPLE CANT EVER GET ALONG NOT NOW NOT EVER. I strongly believe this because everything is fine when I am alone in life.

If you check my profile you will see that I have no friends on this base it is because I don't like to be around others for the reasons I have already stated.

Anyway do you guys agree that PEOPLE IN THE WORLD WILL NEVER GET ALONG COLLECTIVELY

Just because you don't get along with others doesn't mean that nobody else can. If anything, it sounds like you have a problem with personal accountability. You should pick your friends better, if anything. Socialization is a necessary facet of human life, both currently and throughout history. Without socialization, a species will die out in under a full generation.

I think that humanity will always have fundamental differences with itself, but none that are irreconcilable. If you've ever seen Watchmen, you might agree that all humanity needs is a common force to oppose. Governments come together on certain issues to produce favorable results to all nations involved; people haggle and barter so that they can continue to coexist and do business. In that regard, so long as humans need to survive and business continues to thrive, Humanity will coexist as best as they can.
 

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Not everyone's gonna fit like the perfect puzzle piece. Its just how we are <:) I understand that when you get pushed around too often that you just start to armor yourself from social interactions in hopes to avoid bad problems again. I've had my own taste of bad problems with people. Then again, who doesn't?

its quite ok not to get along with everyone, that's just how we are. Same yet Diversed.

But this shouldn't mean you shouldn't give new people chances. Just be cautious of how you interact with them at first.

EDIT: Also know that true love is acceptance yo. You dont need to like every little bit of someone, and that's quite ok, or else you'd become practically a mirror of that person. And no two people are the same. And as i read your message i look at it and think, "Can't be all" Because its true, not everyone's against you yo. Its how you perceive them that makes them for or against you.
 
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