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I am in need of opinions. There is this guy who is in my class same age as me, we are in college, he's an althete, and he also has a gf (dating for a year or so and I'm told that she is a b!tch). However lately he has been extremely nice to me... and here is where my story begings: (ps I am in a wheel chair from surgery but not permanetly)

Today we had class outside. I was just sitting there in my wheel chair and all of a sudden he came up behind me and started making me do donuts and then eventually stopped. Then when class was over he pushed my wheel-chair around the field so I could help pick up and be involved which then lead to him pushing me all the way inside to my class(I did not ask for him to do so). On the way in an older lady said "Well look at you pushing a pretty lady in." he then said " yes she is very very pretty" I was like WTF? you have a gf (in my head of course). then as our 'road trip' went on he decided to push me to class. So i was like ok... he is just being nice. once we got to class he found out i didnt have it for another 30min so he continued to push me around the building and eventually into our gym "parked me" and sat next to me on the bleachers and we talked for awhile. eventually some other girl came up and sat next to him and he moved a bit away from her... which is different. Finally at 10 to he asked if i was ready to go to class i said yess and he pushed me all the way back to my room. (during our road trip i asked if he has class or anything going on he said no. dont know if that makes a difference)

So my question is... do you people of NB think that this is just a guy being really really nice or do you think there is something else going on. I think as for now I am giong to take it as he is just being overly nice and see what happens. But what do you guys think :shrug:
 

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One of two things, pretty lady lol

1) He could just feel bad for you in your wheelchair and wants to be nice. He's also trying to see how far he can go in the joking side with you.

2) He's dumped the bitch and is flirting with you! :D

I hope it's 2 but I personally think its 1. Idk, just a though :shrug:
 

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One of two things, pretty lady lol

1) He could just feel bad for you in your wheelchair and wants to be nice. He's also trying to see how far he can go in the joking side with you.

2) He's dumped the bitch and is flirting with you! :D

I hope it's 2 but I personally think its 1. Idk, just a though :shrug:
I'm thinking its one too. I know him and his gf are still together at least according to fb. (he friend requested me btw) but it doesnt look like they talk much. but as you said idk either haha but thank you for your opinion there is no wrong answer I wont get offended. lol
 

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I am in need of opinions. There is this guy who is in my class same age as me, we are in college, he's an althete, and he also has a gf (dating for a year or so and I'm told that she is a b!tch). However lately he has been extremely nice to me... and here is where my story begings: (ps I am in a wheel chair from surgery but not permanetly)

Today we had class outside. I was just sitting there in my wheel chair and all of a sudden he came up behind me and started making me do donuts and then eventually stopped. Then when class was over he pushed my wheel-chair around the field so I could help pick up and be involved which then lead to him pushing me all the way inside to my class(I did not ask for him to do so). On the way in an older lady said "Well look at you pushing a pretty lady in." he then said " yes she is very very pretty" I was like WTF? you have a gf (in my head of course). then as our 'road trip' went on he decided to push me to class. So i was like ok... he is just being nice. once we got to class he found out i didnt have it for another 30min so he continued to push me around the building and eventually into our gym "parked me" and sat next to me on the bleachers and we talked for awhile. eventually some other girl came up and sat next to him and he moved a bit away from her... which is different. Finally at 10 to he asked if i was ready to go to class i said yess and he pushed me all the way back to my room. (during our road trip i asked if he has class or anything going on he said no. dont know if that makes a difference)

So my question is... do you people of NB think that this is just a guy being really really nice or do you think there is something else going on. I think as for now I am giong to take it as he is just being overly nice and see what happens. But what do you guys think :shrug:
ok take it from a guy.......he likes you. No way in hell that a guy is that nice to a girl with no good reason. I mean I'm being nice to a girl right now because I want to be her bf. And I know that some people think that being a girls friend is lame but let me ask you this...if a girl is dating a guy and then that guy breaks her heart...who will she come to with he problems. ME! because I'll be able to fully understand what she's going through and I'll be there to comfort her. I know this AND IM 14 SUKER'S!!!! and he might be tired of the other girls bs and is looking for someone who can be understanding but can still wup some AS$. so wait awhile. But let him also know that you like him(if you do that is) let him catch you occationally lookin at him but when he looks you turn away.I'm tellin you it works. that's how I got my first gf.dont outright tell him that you like him let him do it first cuz if u dont INSTANT AWKWARDNESS
 
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I'm thinking its one too. I know him and his gf are still together at least according to fb. (he friend requested me btw) but it doesnt look like they talk much. but as you said idk either haha but thank you for your opinion there is no wrong answer I wont get offended. lol
question is are you willing to get with him
 

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ok take it from a guy.......he likes you. No way in hell that a guy is that nice to a girl with no good reason. I mean I'm being nice to a girl right now to a girl because I want to be her bf. And I know that some people think that being a girld friend is lame but let me ask you this...if a girl is dating a guy and then that guy breaks her heart...who will she come to with he problems. ME! because I'll be able to fully understand what she's going through and I'll be there to comfort her. I know this AND IM 14 SUKER'S!!!!
I agree. And ima be 14 in two days suckas.
 

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ok take it from a guy.......he likes you. No way in hell that a guy is that nice to a girl with no good reason. I mean I'm being nice to a girl right now to a girl because I want to be her bf. And I know that some people think that being a girld friend is lame but let me ask you this...if a girl is dating a guy and then that guy breaks her heart...who will she come to with he problems. ME! because I'll be able to fully understand what she's going through and I'll be there to comfort her. I know this AND IM 14 SUKER'S!!!!
nah he might not like her like that he might just be promiscuous....
 

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ok take it from a guy.......he likes you. No way in hell that a guy is that nice to a girl with no good reason. I mean I'm being nice to a girl right now to a girl because I want to be her bf. And I know that some people think that being a girld friend is lame but let me ask you this...if a girl is dating a guy and then that guy breaks her heart...who will she come to with he problems. ME! because I'll be able to fully understand what she's going through and I'll be there to comfort her. I know this AND IM 14 SUKER'S!!!!
No a guy can be nice to a girl and not want. A relationship.im naturally im nice to girls and most of them I have no feelings for them
 

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i understand the whole "im nice to girls" in general concept. however in the 22 years I have been around I have never had a guy be that nice when he has only known me for 7 days. Thats all I'm sayin.
7 days just changes everything. He wants to get to know you ad make a friend. If I were him, Id be getting to know someone else, especially a girl if I'm tired of my gf. This is what I would do, but don't know the guy lol
 

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No a guy can be nice to a girl and not want. A relationship.im naturally im nice to girls and most of them I have no feelings for them
dont get me wrong I have girls who are just my friends to. But if there's a girl that I want to be with..I will probably do the "cheesy" things like go outta my way to open the door for her or carry her books and stuff like that. But there's nothin wrong with bein just a girls friend but to me it sounds like he's tryin to be more.
 

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I am in need of opinions. There is this guy who is in my class same age as me, we are in college, he's an althete, and he also has a gf (dating for a year or so and I'm told that she is a b!tch). However lately he has been extremely nice to me... and here is where my story begings: (ps I am in a wheel chair from surgery but not permanetly)

Today we had class outside. I was just sitting there in my wheel chair and all of a sudden he came up behind me and started making me do donuts and then eventually stopped. Then when class was over he pushed my wheel-chair around the field so I could help pick up and be involved which then lead to him pushing me all the way inside to my class(I did not ask for him to do so). On the way in an older lady said "Well look at you pushing a pretty lady in." he then said " yes she is very very pretty" I was like WTF? you have a gf (in my head of course). then as our 'road trip' went on he decided to push me to class. So i was like ok... he is just being nice. once we got to class he found out i didnt have it for another 30min so he continued to push me around the building and eventually into our gym "parked me" and sat next to me on the bleachers and we talked for awhile. eventually some other girl came up and sat next to him and he moved a bit away from her... which is different. Finally at 10 to he asked if i was ready to go to class i said yess and he pushed me all the way back to my room. (during our road trip i asked if he has class or anything going on he said no. dont know if that makes a difference)

So my question is... do you people of NB think that this is just a guy being really really nice or do you think there is something else going on. I think as for now I am giong to take it as he is just being overly nice and see what happens. But what do you guys think :shrug:
pretty sure he wants to tap you since he never done it with a chick on a wheelchair. or he might just be friendly or has pity on you.
 

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7 days just changes everything. He wants to get to know you ad make a friend. If I were him, Id be getting to know someone else, especially a girl if I'm tired of my gf. This is what I would do, but don't know the guy lol
yea I guess that makes sense but I would think that if he wanted to get to know me he would just talk to me not go as far as he did.
 
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