Save all that bull shit. Having parents or kids and then losing them is way more worse. If I had a million dollars and then it gets stolen or lost I'm going to be pissed but I'm not going to be pissed if I never had that. million dollars.
Having something and then losing it period is more worse in any scenario.
Did you specially fire shots at me? Since you quoted despite i made a neutral post.
You can not compare the money you have / could have to an actual human.
Have you seen/talked to people who lost loved ones, or lost one? Or atleast you can imagine it. Many people would have preferred having their loved ones and losing them over never being encountering to them. I feel the same way, grief comes with love one way or another.
By the way everyone have parents at some point be it if they never see them or not, but not everyone have that money from default. There is no "never" when it comes to existence of parents, unlike for kids aswell.
But as i said, i have no sides on this matter. Some things can not be compared.