Nervous about dating

The Necromancer

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Think about it this way. You're dating her, not marrying her. If you find that there's a better girl out there, you can break up and pursue that girl. If you find out that she's not what you expected, you can break up. If you find out you're not ready for the commitment, you can break up.

What i'm saying is that dating can be a temporary thing. It's not a commitment unless you make it one.
 

EnDash

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Ok so I need some advice guys. Right now I'm talking to this girl about dating each other and we've only danced around the idea though neither of us are denying that we attract each other. My problem is not that she won't date me but my own nervousness at dating her. I mean every time ive dated a girl I start doubting alot of things. Stuff like maybe theres a better a girl out there for me and I shouldn't date this one or I start thinking that I won't be good enough for this girl and that she will dump me. Whatever doubts I have usually stop me from dating.

Do you guys have any advice for a nervous wreck like me?

realize she is just as nervous as you or maybe more, and she feels the pressure to make it work just like you do. i think this will help you with the nervousness.
 

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Jeez you're such a f*cking pessimist. Before I date a girl me and her "talk"(sorta like pre dating) for a while so I know what she's about I don't rush into things cause if they don't work out then things won't be the same. Only time I get nervous around girls is when we're about to have our first kiss. Don't want to f*ck it up :/
 

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I feel like this thread isnt going to go well ._.
 

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i think madara is going to be the next ten tailed beasts jinchuriki.!!
 

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Asking NB for dating advice? Lol!!! Just make love to her by the fire.
 

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Don't listen to anyone here. SimplePickup prob. has the best advice ever.
[video=youtube;X7PAYhmoKkA]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X7PAYhmoKkA[/video]
 

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Don't listen to anyone here. SimplePickup prob. has the best advice ever.
[video=youtube;X7PAYhmoKkA]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X7PAYhmoKkA[/video]

I lost it when he fell backwards like a bowling ball
 

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Go out with a ugly girl first to get experience.
 
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