Nervous about dating

[FitzChivalry Farseer]

Ok so I need some advice guys. Right now I'm talking to this girl about dating each other and we've only danced around the idea though neither of us are denying that we attract each other. My problem is not that she won't date me but my own nervousness at dating her. I mean every time ive dated a girl I start doubting alot of things. Stuff like maybe theres a better a girl out there for me and I shouldn't date this one or I start thinking that I won't be good enough for this girl and that she will dump me. Whatever doubts I have usually stop me from dating.

Do you guys have any advice for a nervous wreck like me?

 

[Legendary Sage of 6 Paths]

happened to me too , but when i got to know her , she understands me , cares for me , Is Kind and sometimes a bit psycho , This is how you know which girl is for you

IF she likes your Personality , Character

Then you are In the RIght ZONE ... ENJOY !!!!

Source : My Experience

 

[-S-]

There's no need to be nervous if you're thinking of sleeping in the same bed with this girl some time in the future.

 

[Yerrina]

Even as a girl, I have the same thoughts. But you must give yourself the chance to know her enough to reject her or go on with her, otherwise the doubt of 'what could have happened if I went on with it' could eat you alive.

 

[foxyladyland]

just say " you're really sweet , but you're also really cute too. " she might be weirded out by you , but it lets her know a little of what you're thinking.

 

[Shichi]

asking on a site called NARUTObase probably isn't the best idea.

 

[-PK-]

Just go for it dude . Even if she is meant for you , things will eventually work out right and you will both understand each other . If things don't work out then you can search for the right girl again .
But trying out won't do any harm , who knows , she might be the one .

 

[-Tremendous-]

Don't get nervous bro confidence is the key. and also compliment her.

 

[Momochifanboy]

First things first take it easy.
Second get to know her and then decide if you whant to stick around.
Third Understand what you whant in a girl/woman.
And of course to the "is there a hotter chick that i can tap" there will be doubt's but it's not that you gona marry her.
Hope this helps you.

 

[Supreme x Uchiha]

You only feel this way because you're in the beginning stages of dating. It happened to me, too. Trust me, once you get more comfortable around her, things will be much easier.

 

[-Punk-]

Well , if you're already having doubts & feeling unease , I would suggest you to not rush anything until you are sure you want to date this character , because if you don't you will only keep bringing doubt into the relationship & won't enjoy anything , so don't rush it & give it time . #From Punk with Love . *raises glass*

 

[Hunty]

Ok so I need some advice guys. Right now I'm talking to this girl about dating each other and we've only danced around the idea though neither of us are denying that we attract each other. My problem is not that she won't date me but my own nervousness at dating her. I mean every time ive dated a girl I start doubting alot of things. Stuff like maybe theres a better a girl out there for me and I shouldn't date this one or I start thinking that I won't be good enough for this girl and that she will dump me. Whatever doubts I have usually stop me from dating.

Do you guys have any advice for a nervous wreck like me?

Is it really that tough..? Ask her out and date, get over that stuff.

 

[GreyWizard93]

Dude, do what I do.

Think to yourself. #%£&£ nervousness.

Your clearly a good guy if she is attracted to you.

Don't be to fancy and go somewhere where you feel out of place because that don't help either.

Smile, look good, be polite and if you do do something foolish make a joke out of it!


Oh and also, don't go in to quick. Wait it out to hear her, girls loving listeners.

 

[Yo pappy]

Is her bottom lip bigger than the top?

 

[Reraru]

Don't be nervous and....................i don't know.dattebayo!

 

[Sir Blades]

Just go with the flow bro. These aren't life or death matters, these things are suppose to happen. Enjoy life and take this risk.

 

[GreyWizard93]

asking on a site called NARUTObase probably isn't the best idea.

Aaaand why not? Are you doubting yourself??

 

[the big boss]

just say " you're really sweet , but you're also really cute too. " she might be weirded out by you , but it lets her know a little of what you're thinking.

your gender and your post confuse me ?

what are you ?

 

[cigi]

just go out with her and be positive leave the negativity out

 

[Hunty]

Is her bottom lip bigger than the top?

Only you would ask this question.. She has them BJ lips, she's a keeper.