Needing help making a tuff decision with girls

[AvatarMadara]

I'm stuck in a catch 22, I cant find the right answer and I'm slowley going insane. I have this great girl in my life. I love her like crazy and impossible to not love her. But she has a boyfriend......of 4 years. we talk and text all the time and it's great!!. I want to make a stand but she's told me she's happy with her relationship multiply times. so if I fight for her I might lose her and hurt her all at the same time. but I may also win her. I don't know what I'm doing and really need advice.

 

[Prince of Persia TTT]

Bro its better to leave your relationship the way it is
bcoz if she already has a bf so its almost impossible for her to think about you
though I am not saying that she doesnt thinks about you
but the thing is there is a tag of friendship
and if you propose her it might be possible that she even stops talking with you

 

[Sephy100]

Leave her alone. End of thread.

 

[AnimeIsPerfection]

Be careful with what you do. If she's happy, and you truely love her, then you want her to remain happy right? Therefore, it'd be best not to intervene. Wait until her other relationship starts sliding to make a move. If it doesn't seem like that will happen, then you should at least tell her your feelings. When that may be, i do not know, but it needs to be sometime before your time with her is up. If you don't at least express the way you feel, any chances will be lost and you'll regret it. Please be careful, and good luck.

 

[ackeem1992]

if you care about the friendship then don't do it, if you don't then yes pursue her cuz you have nothing to loose anyways, 1/10 chance she will fall out of love with her bf and be with you good luck.

 

[kmrasengan]

get her drunk and start some business.

 

[AvatarMadara]

Thank you For your advice!!, I love her very much and she's one of my best friends. I think I will go with not doing anything and wait for the other rela to fade out. It makes me feel better and Your all right. I can't lose as friend. I'd die if that happened. thank you guys again. you all are gangsta's in my eyes!!!

 

[AvatarMadara]

Bro its better to leave your relationship the way it is
bcoz if she already has a bf so its almost impossible for her to think about you
though I am not saying that she doesnt thinks about you
but the thing is there is a tag of friendship
and if you propose her it might be possible that she even stops talking with you

Be careful with what you do. If she's happy, and you truely love her, then you want her to remain happy right? Therefore, it'd be best not to intervene. Wait until her other relationship starts sliding to make a move. If it doesn't seem like that will happen, then you should at least tell her your feelings. When that may be, i do not know, but it needs to be sometime before your time with her is up. If you don't at least express the way you feel, any chances will be lost and you'll regret it. Please be careful, and good luck.

if you care about the friendship then don't do it, if you don't then yes pursue her cuz you have nothing to loose anyways, 1/10 chance she will fall out of love with her bf and be with you good luck.

Thanks you all. this helped very much. I feel much better. Thanks AGAIN!!

 

[Ryuu..]

If you really want her then you'll go for it.

 

[Jack Spicer]

Go ahead, break up a happy relationship of 4 years for your own selfish reasons.

 

[BadBoy M]

he need advice :|

:sy:

 

[Ebi..]

Just let her be happy if you actually love her like you say you do. If her guy is making her happy then just let her be, if not comfort her like a friend should...

 

[Commander Axe]

*YO YO YO YO DON'T DO IT, IT CAN CAUSE YOU HARM
SHE MIGHT STOP TALKING TO YOU AND YOU'LL LOSE YOUR CHARM
KEEP BEING FRIENDS AND DONT EVER LET HER GO
BUT EXPRESS YOUR FEELINGS OR YOU'LL REGRET IT FOR SHO*
YEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHh!

 

[Darthlawsuit]

Sorry but she has a BF... She will probably say no and it will ruin relationship.

 

[Mystical Ruby]

Let her know, at least you tried.

 

[AvatarMadara]

thanks again everyone for the advice, but I decided to not go thro with it. I do love her very much, but I'm going to wait and see what happens, maybe time will give me a better opening then now. if I lost her as friend....I couldnt take it. So then that means I gotta go the other route. it sucks but it is what it is

 

[Shin Kaito]

let her know about it and that's all .. let her make the choice..

if it don't go well .. just find someone else