[Discussion] Need a little help and advice

[Spades]

My English is not too great so please keep that in mine.

A month ago me and my girl decided to take Break in our relationship. It wasn't my idea, it was hers.
I ask her for reason for this break and well, let's just say it wasn't valid points. Almost like creating things to complicate an already complicated situation.

How can you show someone you care, when it's hard to even explain.

 

[Chibiusa]

You could've stopped typing after the 2nd paragraph. That's enough info right there to make it obvious you two should just break up, not go on break.

 

[-Raviel-]

Find the nearest strip club.......or try to work things out.

 

[-Punk-]

When a girls asks for a break , its over man .....dont go back to it , you will only get hurt trust me U_U

& it seems its not worth trying ...so my advice is to forget about the relationship & move on to something better

 

[Alleiram]

Looks like your friends are right. She isn't treating you the way she should and she is just making you sad. Constantly. It may not seem like it but the right choice, in my opinion, is to just break up and find someone who'll make you happy and not cheat. If she cheated, she will again. Move on, it'll be hard but it's possible. *_* As for your daughter, I can't give you advice on that because I'm not too knowledgeable on that type of stuff, I'm not an adult yet and I personally can't fully understand but I wish you the best.

 

[Spades]

Looks like your friends are right. She isn't treating you the way she should and she is just making you sad. Constantly. It may not seem like it but the right choice, in my opinion, is to just break up and find someone who'll make you happy and not cheat. If she cheated, she will again. Move on, it'll be hard but it's possible. *_* As for your daughter, I can't give you advice on that because I'm not too knowledgeable on that type of stuff, I'm not an adult yet and I personally can't fully understand but I wish you the best.

My friend, there is no such thing as being happy, because every new relationship has new crap to deal with, last thing i want is to drop one stress and pick up another load of crap. which is why i am trying to work through my current crap.

 

[Alleiram]

My friend, there is no such thing as being happy, because every new relationship has new crap to deal with, last thing i want is to drop one stress and pick up another load of crap. which is why i am trying to work through my current crap.

Yes, relationships are work but maybe you feel that way because you haven't found the right person yet, maybe?
You're talking to a 17 year old with little to none experience on relationships... but have you tried to talk things out? Going to talk to someone for help? If you feel like you don't want to end the relationship, 5 years and a daughter making it harder to make a decision, then you should seek professional help because it's sad seeing someone so down. Just my take on things.

 

[Spades]

Yes, relationships are work but maybe you feel that way because you haven't found the right person yet, maybe?
You're talking to a 17 year old with little to none experience on relationships... but have you tried to talk things out? Going to talk to someone for help? If you feel like you don't want to end the relationship, 5 years and a daughter making it harder to make a decision, then you should seek professional help because it's sad seeing someone so down. Just my take on things.

Hmm i see your point. My friend, no man cannot talk to a woman. Real man fight for woman when being told crap. Maybe i should take her out or have *** and see how we feel after? I've been told the quickest way to fix any argument or bring back any emotions for one another is through ***

 

[Alleiram]

Well personally if I saw a guy was making an effort when I wasn't, I'd give it a try. I understand where you're coming from though. Some women are hard-headed haha but so are men. If you take her out you should discuss it to see how she feels about it.

 

[Amantius]

welcome to my world

 

[NyobZoo]

Girls will barely tell you the real reason why they want a break. Did she just asked all of a sudden? Or were you guys getting into fights and arguments recently? If you guys were perfectly normal and she asked for a break all of a sudden, then it's not a good thing and you should be worry. She probably has something else going on with someone else or has something up her sleeve, like leaving you for good. If you guys were rough beforehand, then you need to reach out and apologize eventhough it wasn't your fault. You need to learn why it got rough to begin with and try to avoid it next time. Don't fix it with ***, you don't want to rely on it, both parties will get the wrong impression that the relationship is just ***, this is not good.

 

[Pervy Wrath]

Well, obviously something's up. If you've been together for five years and she just says she needs a break without any valid reasons, either she's a *****, crazy or just hungry for some strange. Sorry man.