Dating several months back now, all the way back to May-ish, I've archived the highs and lows of my relationship with my then girlfriend. [
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]. It served as a form of therapy for me and I made a lot of great friends who shared their struggles with me. Several other members and I helped each other through critical points of our lives and it was a good experience. My situation has since ended, and as per pattern and request, here it is.
When we left off, my girlfriend and I were hanging by a thread. I desperately wanted to fix things, and she claimed she did too, but her actions spoke otherwise. She was cold, distant, unfeeling toward me. I ignored it for quite some time chalking it up to nerves and all that, but finally I had enough. I confronted her. Asked her what was going on, why she was so separated from me after all the time and love we shared. She told me it was just a phase and she'd get over it, wouldn't budge. I did a little investigating. Looked through some contacts, noticed her habits, and talked to her friends and my worst dreams came true: there was another man.
I surprised her at school on day and there they were. Hand in hand, making eyes at each other. The dude was far and away the biggest tool I'd ever seen. He had a neckbeard, stupid Digimon T-Shirt, broken rimmed glasses, etc. I know the guy a little and he's honestly the biggest pest ever. He says "That's what she said!" roughly 4000 times a day and says anyone who doesn't like Coldplay needs mental help, which is funny because Coldplay ****ing sucks. Make long story short, I busted them out. Told that f
uckboy he could have her and that she's more trouble than she's worth. I have no use for a liar and a betrayer. I messed up sometimes, I was never perfect and I won't claim to be, but I didn't deserve that. Not by a long shot. She was stringing me along and using me a safety net, a crutch. She was so weak she couldn't stand without me.
So I let it sit. Brushed her off, told that dude if I ever catch him again I'm swinging on him for disrespecting me (he knew that was my girl and he took advantage of her emotional duress. It's a respect thing, not about the chick at this point) as a man, and didn't look back. Since then, my ex has been blowing up my phone constantly. She's telling me she misses me, she wants me back, she'll do anything even if we're just friends AND then she flips and says she's glad she did what she's done to me, she's happy she hurt me for as long as she did, then back to being sweet and begging. That chick is straight crazy.
Best part is because of that, I met an even better girl. I was hitting the gym one night, listening to a voicemail from my ex. The message said I was garbage and I deserved to die alone, then it was followed with a text of "I miss you baby". I laughed it off and deleted her number, then I hooked up with one the homies for a night of Black Ops and he brought along a friend he thought I'd like, a girl I'd never met before.
We clicked incredibly like a romance movie with sparks and foofy shit like that. Fast forward to now, and she's my girlfriend and things are great. She's sweet, loyal, appreciative, kind, smart, and I couldn't be happier with how things ended up shaking out. I have a good feeling about the new chick that the old one NEVER gave me and I KNOW she's a 1000% step-up from my ex, while I hear my ex and her boyfriend are having problems. Obviously, because she's still hitting me up all time :devil:
TL;DR - One last attempt to make it work with ex, found out she was lying for months and had a side piece. Dumped her, lol'd at the dilhole replacement, laughed from the sidelines as my ex desperately reaches out to me. Found a new girl who's even better, still laughing as my ex won't leave me alone and can't stand the choices she made while my new relationship flourishes. #LifeIsGood
